Ways to get the perfect orgasm (women)   

Stop putting your needs on the backburner ladies! You got to go out and get yours, too! Here are some key ways to get the perfect orgasm from your man or just from a hook up.

1. Discover What You Like

How can you get the perfect orgasm if you won’t even know what you like? Take some time to use your fingers or toys to discover what feels best for you. This will take a few solo sessions to determine what feels good for you, but hey, at least you’ll have fun doing it. Make sure you play around with a few techniques.

2. Tell Him

Whether his head is in between your legs, he has his fingers inside you or his member deep within you, get vocal when he’s doing something right by moaning or screaming. Even calling out his name or saying, “That feels amazing” is enough to let him know you’re enjoying it. If he’s getting you close with a certain maneuver, let him know you’re close, that way, he’ll know to keep doing what he’s doing. If you feel like that motion he’s doing with his tongue is going to make you cum, then tell him to keep doing it. If he’s doing something you don’t like, let him know. Don’t waste his time or yours. This leads to neither of you feeling fulfilled after. Maybe you go through an entire session and feel like he just doesn’t have a clue. Don’t hesitate to request something during the act. You can also move him to a position you want him in or even move your hips to make it feel good for you.

3. Help Him

If he’s hitting it from behind and you know that just isn’t going to work for you without some clit stimulation, then use your hands. While he’s fingering you, feel free to lick your fingers and begin massaging your pearl. He won’t be offended, but he just might be a bit turned on. Don’t hesitate to add sex toys to the mix in order to achieve the perfect orgasm.