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the first date guide part 3 - how to win him over on the first date

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First dates are like the first day at school. You want to be liked, make a good impression, and create lasting relationships. Whether you meet your guy at a party, a bar, or at the local library, your first date is the initial interaction that you have with your new boo. Your first thought will likely be how to win him over on the first date? How do you win this guy over and have him wrapped around your finger hanging off of every word?

Lay on the charm

You are a charming lady, clearly! If it weren’t for your natural charm, you wouldn’t be on the first date. Don’t let your nerves ruin your date. Simply shake them off and lay on the charm that your guy has already fallen for.

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What’s unique about you

There is that special something about everyone. Maybe you are a collector with infinite knowledge about West African art or maybe you have an interesting career path that most haven’t heard of. Whatever it may be that makes you unique and interesting, highlight those apspects and show your date that you are a catch, a one of a kind that they can not risk missing a chance with.

Listen to him

Here’s a fact; people love to talk about themselves, their passions, and the things they love to do. Don’t monopolize the conversation with talks about you. Give your date a chance to talk about themselves but more importantly, listen to them. Actively engage in conversation without steering it back towards you. Ask engaging questions that allows them to elaborate.

Lay off the liquor

Yes, a few adult beverages helps to loosen you up and no, there is nothing wrong with that. However, beyond two drinks is too much and you should avoid over drinking at all costs. Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and control which is not a good look on the first date. You may start slurring your words, sweating, and turn into a total mess. Don’t be that girl on the first date.

Use light touching to show your interest

It is easy for a guy to misconstrue a night out and assume that their date is not actually as interested in them because the signals were unclear. Help make your interest completely clear by touching his shoulder when you laugh, offering him a warm embrace when you enter the date, and grazing his hand through the date. Light touches provide positive body language that your date will definitely pick up on.

Offer to go dutch at the end of the date

The date is over and the bill has arrived. Offer to split the bill with your date one time. Now, you should always go on a first date prepared to pay even though that is not the gentlemanly thing for a man to do if he knows how to lay a girl on the first date. Men love to be able to tell you to put your money away so that they can pay and will love even more that you don’t feel entitled for them to pay for you.

 

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If you’re a noob using a sex dating site, there are some tips you need to know to get the most of the sex opportunities!

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1. Get Your Bronze On

Your profile picture needs to be the most attractive as possible. After all, people are judging you by the way you look in your picture. Invest in some body bronzer or spray tan (just don’t use the orangey stuff) to make your skin look like it seriously feels good to touch.

2.  Be Candid About Your Desires

Listen, this isn’t the time to be bashful. Everyone’s there with the same goal in mind, so no one’s going to get offended by your foot fetish or desire to be dominated. Lay it all out there. That’s the only way to be sure you get what you want!

3. Keep it Private

Take advantage of any privacy settings the dating site allows, such as a temporary email address or a pseudonym user name. Being open about your desires doesn’t mean you’re not entitled to privacy. The last thing you need is for your boss or girlfriend to wander on the site and find you in all your bare-assed splendor.

4.  Ask Plenty of Questions

There are those in the world who don’t give a damn about spreading their sexually-transmitted disease. Before you take things into the bedroom (or the elevator), ask plenty of questions of this person you’re seeking carnal knowledge with. You can get plenty of sex from the dating site. There’s no need to settle for anyone who isn’t totally healthy.

5.  Get Fit

Don’t kid yourself about your body. You’re going to have lots of competition on a sex dating site. This is not the time to be in denial about that beer gut, or those jiggly thighs. If you want a hot body to lay down with, make sure you’re giving as well as you get. Tone up to get down. Get it?

 

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one night stands
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Many people are increasingly attracted to one night relationships, partly due to the relatively fast tract opportunity towards the achievement of sexual intercourse within a very small time. One night stand often results from saying hello to your mate to sex often within few hours after you meet her

Advantages of one night stands

One night stands offer some advantages to those involved in the situation. It enables two people to fulfill their sexual desires almost instantly after they meet one another without the usual drama, and long courtship often involving weeks and months before sexual intercourse. One night stands also eliminates the strings often attached, prior to two people enter into sexual intercourse. Many consider one night stands as fun.

How to find one night stands

To find one night stands here are the best places to find it

  • Bars and Night Club scenes-women are loose at night clubs and bars
  • Wedding Crashers-Women are more emotional after watching wedding vows
  • Holiday Parties- More affection during holiday periods
  • Birthday Parties-go after the girl celebrating her birthday

Strategy

Use different strategy, at the events such as described above when you first walk in scan through all the women around and select the women that will likely be a good candidate, don’t go after the hottest chicks, you have less competition with less attractive girls. Settle down with a choice, and let her know you consider her to be the most attractive girl around even if she is not. They will be blown away and may likely believe you and what you say the rest of the evening. Make pristine first impression, approach her with confidence, and engage her with a good conversation. Do everything in your power to make her feel good about you and herself, to boost her ego and thrust as well as her confidence. Chances are high you may take her home for your one night stand.

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Finding a Partner
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Whether you’re in a relationship where your sexual needs aren’t being met, or you are single and desiring a good night of passion, there are ways to find great, free sex. You may be wondering how to go about doing so without having any strings attached. There are ways to go about finding the perfect partner for a hot night of sex, and here are some tips for doing so in the easiest manner possible:

Visit chat rooms & dating websites

The sky is the limit when it comes to finding sex partners online. With the abundance of adult dating websites, you can easily find some very attractive and willing sex partners who aren’t looking for a commitment. When navigating the various websites, be sure to search for prospective dates who have specified that they’re also looking for “hook-ups” only and not a committed relationship. If you’re not sure, then you need to ask and make your expectations known upfront.

Ask friends & family members

You might feel uncomfortable asking friends about hook-up buddies, but if the people that know you are aware of what you’re looking for, then they can set you up with others who may be looking for a romp in the hay, as well. This actually makes it easy on you, because you don’t have to explain yourself once you meet prospective dates, since they will already be on the same page. You might be surprised at how those that you know might introduce you to interesting people who can share pantasies with you.

Choose the right hangouts

The specific hangouts that you frequent are more important than you might believe. If you hang out at bars, then you need to hang out at the right ones. You should choose joints with lots of sexually-charged men and women, so you can increase your luck. Perform research about the local bars or ask others where the best establishments are for finding bed buddies.

 

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Looking For Swingers?
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Swingers are part of one of the hottest movements in the adult dating scene. From the movies to magazines, people are discussing open relationships. Yet, it is not as easy to find acceptable partners as it might seem.

Oh, there are plenty of men and women who want to experience a little variety in the bedroom. They may want to swap sex partners. But, in the end, problems seem to arise more often than they should. What could have been uncomplicated fun becomes a messy experience.

To help those who want to find the perfect swinging couple, here are three things to look for.

They Accept There Are No Strings Attached

One of the top problems experienced in the adult dating game is having couples want long-term relationships. This request can spoil the whole experience. The goal of swinging is to enjoy life on the wild side. Live for tonight, for tomorrow is never promised.

Swingers already have a partner with whom they are committed. They just want to try out something new in bed, without having to “cheat” on their lover. So, when it is time to find a new couple with whom to swap, it is always best that it is clear upfront there will be no further commitments. Each couple remains free to find another couple to fulfill their fantasies at any time.

 

 

They Leave Emotions at the Door

Similar to having no strings attached, it is always best when a couple knows how to remain free of emotions, especially jealousy and love.

Bad things can happen. A jealous man or woman suddenly begins to believe that their mate has fallen in love with another in the adult scene. Emotional people can ruin marriages and other relationships.

They Respect Secrecy

Adult dating is popular but not something that most want their bosses, neighbors or family members to know about. Always screen potential couples to avoid those who might not be able to keep their, and your, sex activities secret.

 

Looking For Swingers?
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Sexual Positions
Sexual Positions

If you’re going to be hooking up with a sexy partner for a fun fling, then you are likely to want to ensure the sex is super hot. In order to ensure this, you should choose some of the best sexual positions, which could really ramp things up. Here is an overview of 6 sexual positions for the most successful fling:

Doggie style

This position is perfect for several reasons. First of all, since you’re only interested in hookups, then you’re not looking for any emotional attachment. This position doesn’t enable any kissing, which many people only looking for flings aren’t interested in. Another great thing about doggie style is the fact that it allows for very deep penetration, which can increase the sex in a significant manner.

69

Oral sex is always good, even when the sex is only casual. The 69 position is an oldie but goodie that enables you and your partner to pleasure each other simultaneously with your mouths. You will both be in for a real treat, as you climax together all night long.

 

Modified missionary

If you’re looking for some serious enjoyment, then modifying the missionary position somewhat can really rev things up. The position can be modified by placing a pillow under the woman’s bottom, which forces the body farther back, allowing for deeper penetration and optimal clitoral stimulation.

Sexual Positions
Sexual Positions

Reverse cowgirl

This position requires that the woman sit on top of the man, although facing the opposite direction. It enables the penis to stroke from a different angle, leading to deep penetration, ample clitoral stimulation, and explosive orgasms.

 

 

Spooning

This position is wonderful because it enables stimulation in a different manner, which can be especially thrilling. The woman lies on her side, and the man “spoons” her, entering from behind. Speed can be a combination of fast or slow, or anything in-between.

Standing against a wall

This position can be awkward in the beginning, although once it’s perfected it can be quite fun. The woman will stand against the wall, with one leg lifted. She will wrap that leg around her partner, squatting down a bit to make insertion easier. A total winner!

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Tantric Yoga
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If you want passionate sex? Try Tantric Yoga. Tantric Yoga is a divinely exposed system of teachings, clearing up what exactly is needed for passionate sex.

The first technique is the useful one – classic spooning. The guy ought to snuggle in near behind her, setting his chakras with hers. The man’s right upper arm will support the lady, with his palm over her heart and she ought to rest her palm atop his.

The man and the lady will both use pillows to prop their throat, and also arms, very high. That means that the guy may get his left hand under the woman’s throat. He will use his palm to span gently on the vision chakra of her forehead. It is recommended you each be placed on the left side.

An explanation of Tantric Yoga is that it is a religious activity originating in western India that arrived at its most widespread practice from the 9th to the 12th centuries.

These types of teachings are natural to those allowed to undertake them. Tantric Yoga has heavenly objectives for human beings. It includes identifying the special heavenly facets of Shiva together with Sakti. It also has purifying ceremonies which have been a vital fundamental of Tantric Yoga for centuries.

The heavenly facets of Tantric Yoga are named Shiva together with Sakti respectively. Sakti works back together with Shiva to completely reveal all teachings. Shiva is largely realized as the energy of the earth. It works together with Sakti which is the electric energy.

Tantric Yoga is directed at taking advantage of teachings together with assimilating the heavenly electric power in all issues. Tantric Yoga will allow you to realize many delights.

Tantric Yoga has gnostic teachings as well as a practice and yogic performance which makes use of meditating, mantras, and inhalation techniques, together with energy-body tactics. Tantric Yoga has a guru and a disciple partnership as well.

Tantric Yoga
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not only for lesbians
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You don’t just have to be exclusively a lesbian to want to shack up with another girl for the evening. Maybe you’re a bit curious or just like to live out your wild side from time to time.. While you have a slight advantage over men as you can at least think like a women, you are going to quickly discover the issue all men run into: where to find women. Thankfully, there are still plenty of options to meet other women, regardless of if you want the slower approach of getting to know someone before hooking up or if you just want to shoot a few shots and end up back at someone’s house.

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Gym Classes

Some people might say to sign up for a gym membership, but how many people do you actually know who like to chit-chat while working out? Not very many, and if they do, they probably aren’t working out all that much. Instead, you want to sign up for gym classes. Maybe it is a yoga class, Pilates, spin or just about anything else in class form. You might not be able to talk during the class, but after, you instantly have something to share with everyone in the class. Makes for a great conversation starter, and that is where you need to take the lead. And besides, you get attractive women in yoga pants. Double-score.

Business Networking Groups

Networking groups often just turn into social hours. You might talk shop for a few minutes, but these are usually located inside of bars, restaurants and other locations around town. So, feel free to check them out. It is a great way to meet new people and who knows, make some new business connections. 

Yup, Online Adult Dating Websites

If you don’t have the time for the other options, you can create profiles on dating sites. There’s a bunch of dating websites, and many have the “interested in women” check off option. It gets right down to the point, but this might be the best avenue for you to use. 

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Orgasm From Sex Chat
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The internet has brought us a variety of ways to explore our own intimacy within the confines of our home. It used to be that if you wanted to view titillating porn, or talk with others about sex you would have to either head out to a seedy adult video store, or chat with someone over the phone. Plus it was pretty pricey. Since the beginning of the popularity of the internet, people have found ways to explore sex and sexuality through various online portals.

Orgasm From Sex Chat
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Not only is it exciting, but it’s uber private. Just lock your bedroom door, pull up a chair to your computer, and surf away all of the sex chat options that are available out there. It’s even easier now that there are tablets, or smartphones with internet access right at your fingertips. You don’t even have to sit at an actual desktop computer anymore. Laying in bed utilizing this type of adult dating is a piece of cake. So what’s the best way to explore having an orgasm from sex chat? Here are a few key tips to keep in mind.

Make It Private

This is easier if you live alone, but if you have roommates or still live with your parents (not judging you), then you need a space that is super private, so you won’t be disturbed. It’s easier to relax, and enjoy the sex chat experience that way.

Bring Some Additonal Tools

If you don’t feel like you can come to orgasm with your own hands, and this is more for women then men who usually don’t have a problem, whipping their manhood out and going to town! But for a lady, you might need an adult toy to get you all worked up. That’s where the internet comes into play again. There are tons of online adult stores where you can look through all different toys to figure out what you might want. They even give you advice on what each item will do for you, so you don’t even have to leave your home to bring these sexual enhancement devices right to your door. The adult toy company, Lelo is especially helpful with describing what each of their toys can do for you.

Relax!

Go with the flow, enjoy the sexual banter that comes with a sex chat room and let yourself go all the way to the best first orgasm you’ll ever have.

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sex & gym
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“They say that you burn as many calories having sex as you do running five miles. But who runs five miles in 30 seconds?!”

It’s an old joke, but there’s a lot more truth to it than most people realize.

It’s easy to forget in the heat of the moment that having sex is a form of exercise. Not only that; sex is a full-body exercise that burns a ton of calories in all the right spots to keep you trim and fit. Let’s break it down.

A study according to Prevention found that women burn an average of 69 during sex, while men burn an average of 100 calories. That might not sound like a lot right off the bat, but there are two very important things to consider.

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First, where are those calories being burned from? Good sex takes a lot of work from your core and your glutes. Combined with lots of movement, that means that sex is more than just a strong cardio workout. It also builds a little bit of muscle in those key areas for your figure.

Second, it’s important to remember that those 69 and 100 figures are only averages, based on 20 minutes of sex. But the vast majority of people having sex on a regular basis last far longer than 20 minutes. If that timeline is extended just 10 more minutes, the average woman is burning 100 calories and the average man 150.

Put both of those pieces together and you have the perfect recipe for washboard abs and a well-toned butt. And since sex is an exercise just like any other, it is important to engage at least a couple of times a week in order to maintain your figure and improve your endurance. The longer you keep at it, the better you’ll look both in and out of the bedroom.

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