Spontaneous romantic interludes often come when both parties least suspect it, and this certainly includes when one or both are on vacation. People on vacation tend to be relaxed rather than preoccupied with work or school, dressed in attractive clothing, and open to new adventures. To get the most out of potential romance on the road, follow these 10 Vacation Hookups strategies.
Don’t Consider Vacation Hookups a Given
Visiting an unfamiliar place with an air of expectation that hookups are part of the package is a losing strategy. Don’t try too hard — simply enjoy yourself. Keep an open mind about potential new experiences, but act like you’re owed a hookup.
Be Careful About Leaving Clubs With Strangers
Keep in mind that clubs in certain parts of the world attract those who prey on American citizens. Although it may be tempting to leave with an attractive stranger who suddenly comes on to you, resist the urge to do so if something just doesn’t feel right.
Be Prepared
Men and women alike should carry a small stash of condoms. It’s just good sense.
Don’t Make Empty Promises
Avoid leading on potential partners with promises of lasting romance. By the same token, beware of people you’ve just met declaring their everlasting love for you — they may be trying to score an American wife or husband.
Don’t Develop Unrealistic Expectations
On the flip side, you and your vacation romantic interest may decide to keep in touch after you’ve returned home. That’s okay, but bear in mind that these things almost always fizzle quickly.
Be Yourself
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not (an investment banker, for instance), to attract potential short-term partners. Just be yourself and have an authentic experience.
Don’t Get Too Drunk
Too much alcohol can lead to an embarrassing lack of ability to perform as well as bad judgment. Going light on the booze ensures that you’ve got all your wits about you. You don’t want to end up in a strange bed in a strange city with no idea of how to get back to your hotel.
Go a Little Outside Your Comfort Zone
Try hooking up with someone outside of your usual “type” while you’re on vacation. You might discover that you’re not as stuck on a certain kind of person as you thought you were.
Always Tell Friends or Family Your Plans
Tell at least one person in your group where you’ll be before you slip away for a secret vacation tryst. You don’t have to give them details of what you’ll be doing.
Using common sense, treating the other person with respect, and minimizing unnecessary risks are the three key elements to having fun and memorable romantic interludes while on vacation.
