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Places To Touched during Foreplay
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If you’re seeking the secrets to making your woman look forward to sex with you, it begins with showing her you understand the importance of true foreplay. Of course, the romantics will tell you the most effective foreplay is to touch her heart first, and everything else will be easy.

However, the fact is that women are physiologically different from men, and paying attention to foreplay will make for a much more satisfying sexual experience for both of you. While men can be turned on at a glance, most women need touching and caressing to get their engines revving. In fact, the natural lubrication of a women is brought into play specifically by foreplay, and all of her reactions are intensified by the time you spend touching and fondling her.

With that basic insight, you still have to understand the best areas to touch. The first thing to understand is that all women have some common “hot spots,” but your woman will probably have some special areas they enjoy you paying attention to. That means if you are in a longer-term relationship you should experiment and explore, testing the areas and ways she most enjoys.

Here are the areas most women find exceptionally sensitive:

  • Kissing, of course, but also gently kissing and stroking the cheeks, nape of the neck, and her ears.
  • Breasts are made for both to enjoy, especially the nipples and areola. Use your tongue to gently hold the nipple in your mouth while stroking with your tongue.
  • The inner thighs are key. Rather than going straight for the target, tease your mate by gently stroking all around her thighs and reaching back to her buttocks.
  • As a final step before penetration, gently rub the labia and the clitoris. Test her state of lubrication and slowly spread it over her clitoris as a way to achieve a heightened level of her desire to have you enter her.

With a little practice and patience, you will know exactly when foreplay ends and it’s time for the main act.

 

Places To Touched during Foreplay
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woman at adult dating sits
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Since the popularity of MTV’s hit show, Catfish, more and more women are worried that they guy that they are meeting online, is actually not the guy who they are pretending to be. Because a person can remain hidden and anonymous on the internet, women who are trying to meet men on adulte dating sites cannot be sure who they are meeting. Whether are on an adult dating site for no strings attached sex, or a real relationship, you still should know if the guy they are going to be hooking up with is the same guy in his photos. If you are a woman on one of these sites, there are a few ways to know if he is a real guy, or if he is a cat-fish.

woman at adult dating sits
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Are His Photos All Modeling Photos?

If you look at all of the photos on his dating profile, and they all look like they are professional modeling shots, chances are you are being catfished. Most men who are who they claim to be will have candid shots of themselves. Even real models will not use just their modeling shots on dating profile sites.

Try to Find Him on Social Media Sites

The best way to know if he is really who he says he is, is to ask for his Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter account names. If he has none of the above, chances are he is not real. If he does give you account names, make sure that he has more than a few friends. Anyone can quickly set up an account to make you believe what they want you to believe. If he has a high friend count, and he posts status updates and photos often, he is most likely genuine.

 

Ask to Skype or FaceTime with Him

The best way to be sure that you are talking to the person that you think you are is to ask him to Skype or FaceTime with you. If he refuses, it is a serious red flag. You should ask him a few times before getting worried. If he says he cannot FaceTime, chances are he does not have an iPhone. If that is the case, ask him to Skype. It can easily be downloaded, and can be used on any smartphone or laptop.

When you are using adulte dating sites, it is a good idea to be sure that the man you are taking to is genuine. As long as you know a few, simple Catfish tips, you can be sure that you are not being duped.

 

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Cougars
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A cougar is defined as a woman over forty who is in a relationship with a man under 25. More women than ever before in history are being labeled as a cougar. While the concept of an older woman and younger man is not a new one, it has never gained the attention it now does. This is because it has traditionally been kept hush-hush. Men have always been considered behaving “normally” when they had a younger woman hanging on their arm, as long as she was of age, nobody says much. On the other hand, the reverse has traditionally been looked upon as unnatural.  So, why has the cougar become more prevalent in the past several year.

Compatibility

Women may mature emotionally quicker then men, but whe it comes to peaking sexually, they do so at a much later age then men. With this being the case, women of forty often reach their peak at the same time as men in their early to med-twenties. This makes a relationship between what appears diverse age groups seem more practical, as both partners are likely to find themselves satisfied than if they were with partners of their own age group.

Cougars
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Freedom

Women over forty have mostly been married once and had their kids, who are either grown or close to being on their own. They now enjoy a kind of freedom to do what they want, to live out their pantasies and basically enjoy being a woman. The chance of pregnancy is pretty much eliminated, which increases the feeling of freedom to enjoy sex for its own sake. Men in their 20s aren’t thinking about settling down yet. They enjoy the feeling of freedom being with an older woman offers them. She isn’t likely to talk about settling into marriage and having kids because she’s already been there.

In the end, the cougar relationship is a win-win situation for everyone.

 

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not only for lesbians
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You don’t just have to be exclusively a lesbian to want to shack up with another girl for the evening. Maybe you’re a bit curious or just like to live out your wild side from time to time.. While you have a slight advantage over men as you can at least think like a women, you are going to quickly discover the issue all men run into: where to find women. Thankfully, there are still plenty of options to meet other women, regardless of if you want the slower approach of getting to know someone before hooking up or if you just want to shoot a few shots and end up back at someone’s house.

not only for lesbians
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Gym Classes

Some people might say to sign up for a gym membership, but how many people do you actually know who like to chit-chat while working out? Not very many, and if they do, they probably aren’t working out all that much. Instead, you want to sign up for gym classes. Maybe it is a yoga class, Pilates, spin or just about anything else in class form. You might not be able to talk during the class, but after, you instantly have something to share with everyone in the class. Makes for a great conversation starter, and that is where you need to take the lead. And besides, you get attractive women in yoga pants. Double-score.

Business Networking Groups

Networking groups often just turn into social hours. You might talk shop for a few minutes, but these are usually located inside of bars, restaurants and other locations around town. So, feel free to check them out. It is a great way to meet new people and who knows, make some new business connections. 

Yup, Online Adult Dating Websites

If you don’t have the time for the other options, you can create profiles on dating sites. There’s a bunch of dating websites, and many have the “interested in women” check off option. It gets right down to the point, but this might be the best avenue for you to use. 

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Perfect Orgasm

Perfect OrgasmStop putting your needs on the backburner ladies! You got to go out and get yours, too! Here are some key ways to get the perfect orgasm from your man or just from a hook up.

  1. Discover What You Like

How can you get the perfect orgasm if you won’t even know what you like? Take some time to use your fingers or toys to discover what feels best for you. This will take a few solo sessions to determine what feels good for you, but hey, at least you’ll have fun doing it. Make sure you play around with a few techniques.

  1. Tell Him

Whether his head is in between your legs, he has his fingers inside you or his member deep within you, get vocal when he’s doing something right by moaning or screaming. Even calling out his name or saying, “That feels amazing” is enough to let him know you’re enjoying it. If he’s getting you close with a certain maneuver, let him know you’re close, that way, he’ll know to keep doing what he’s doing. If you feel like that motion he’s doing with his tongue is going to make you cum, then tell him to keep doing it. If he’s doing something you don’t like, let him know. Don’t waste his time or yours. This leads to neither of you feeling fulfilled after. Maybe you go through an entire session and feel like he just doesn’t have a clue. Don’t hesitate to request something during the act. You can also move him to a position you want him in or even move your hips to make it feel good for you.

  1. Help Him

If he’s hitting it from behind and you know that just isn’t going to work for you without some clit stimulation, then use your hands. While he’s fingering you, feel free to lick your fingers and begin massaging your pearl. He won’t be offended, but he just might be a bit turned on. Don’t hesitate to add sex toys to the mix in order to achieve the perfect orgasm.

 

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