Going to a swinger club or party in New York City is quite the experience. Having the chance to sample other sexual partners freely is something of which most people can only dream.
For new swingers, getting started can be a bit daunting. Nobody wants to make an embarrassing mistake. Therefore, to help people navigate the swinging world in NYC, here are the top three tips for first timers.
Never Be Too Attached to the Person You Brought
One of the cardinal rules of swinging is to learn how to share. Not everyone finds this rule easy to follow.
Honestly, most people want to have fun on the side. However, they may experience a twinge of jealousy upon seeing their partner with another man or woman. This emotion can ruin a good swinging environment. The group may perceive of the smallest negative reaction, such as trying to steer a mate away from others, as offensive.
Remember, the swinging community is not the regular world. Nobody wants to marry your wife or husband. In reality, they only want to borrow him or her for a little while. At the same time, you are free to enjoy the sensations of another partner. It is all about trust.
Never Get Too Attached to Someone Met at the Club or Party
Likewise, it is a “sin” to develop an attachment to another member of the club or party. Again, trust is the key. Your everyday mate agreed to attend the swinging club. They still want to be a couple. After the night is over, you two should go on being the same loving couple. When someone begins demonstrating true feelings for a man or woman met at a swing event, it destroys the trust of a relationship.
If word gets out to others in the group, that person’s reputation becomes soiled. Nobody will trust him or her again. In most cases, the members will not want to leave their wife or husband alone with an individual known for developing feelings for others so easily.
Never Promote a Swing Club or Party Unless You Are Sure It’s Allowed
It can be tempting to inform friends about the swinging world, especially if you have known them for a long time. Yet, doing so remains forbidden for the most part.
The hosts usually want to spread the word in their own manner. If others do so, they may invite someone incapable of respecting the stated and unstated rules. The swinging game is a volatile one. Missteps can ruin marriages and careers. The last thing you want to be is the person who invited the wrong couple to an event. Let those in the know do the promoting. You are there to enjoy things.
Armed with these rules, the average person can join the New York City swinging environment without causing problems. It is all about sexual freedom. Leave your worries at the doorstep.
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