Sexy Thoughts: What Does He Think About When You’re on Top?

Many women say they feel powerful and dominant when they’re on top during sex. But occasionally, self-

consciousness can make women feel more awkward than empowered. Concerns about how your boobs look will take you out of the moment and away from the intensity of really great sex. To help you lay some of those fears to rest, we’ve compiled a list of what he’s REALLY thinking about when you’re on top.

1. Your body: From his perspective, he’s got a front row seat for all the good stuff. Without much effort, he can see and touch your breasts, your butt, and your … everything else. There are not many positions that offer him full access to your body this way. And since he’s not the one worrying about thrusting, he’s going to take it all in while he can.
2. You in control: Relinquishing control can be just as sexy as having it, sometimes even sexier. The fact that you are the one in control will never be far from his mind. Especially if you refuse to let him forget it by changing up the pace – say slowing down your rhythm as he’s getting close to climax, then speeding up, then slowing down again.
3. Your hands: While you on top your hands are free to wander. He’s likely to watch them closely to see where they’ll go next. Will you caress yourself for his viewing pleasure, or caress his chest and face or run your fingers through his hair? Will you can grab his hands or wrists and push them into the mattress next to his head to remind him that you’re in the dominant position this time? He’s sure to wonder.
4. What you’re going to do next: This is a natural consequence of the fact that you’re in control – he’s going to wonder what you’re going to do next. What pace will you set? Will you lean back and steady yourself on his knees or lean in towards his face? There are a lot of possibilities and he’s liable to ask himself where you’re taking him next on this journey.

   

There’s not much that’s sexier than a confident woman calling the shots in bed. Be assured that when you’re on top, you are pretty much all he’s thinking about. So go ahead, let your passionate side take control.