5 Mistakes Women Make After a One Night Stand 

There’s nothing wrong with a woman seeking pleasure with a man in a one-time sexual encounter. No-strings-attached sex can be an incredible release, and when you’re in the midst of a dry spell, a one night stand can be the perfect remedy to get you back in the game. Unfortunately, many women who enjoy a first time casual fling violate a number of unwritten codes for behaving after the deed is done. If you’ve enjoyed a promiscuous run-in and are pondering your next move, consider these five common mistakes women make after a one night stand.

Don’t expect another date.

In the early morning hours after your romp, you may feel awkward and suggest a future date. In more extreme situations, women may become emotionally attached overnight, building wild fantasies in their heads about a long-term relationship. While many marriages begin with a sexual fling, it’s against the one night stand code to expect anything more than the amazing gratification of an isolated encounter.

Avoid putting pressure on this sexy stranger, and enjoy the absolute freedom and spontaneity that accompanies a casual run-in. Still, if you’re both feeling it, who knows that the future may bring.

Don’t get attached.

You don’t love this individual, and there’s no reason to profess that you do. Everyone has heard of nightmarish experiences involving a one-time fling, from people unable to get rid of their visitors in the morning to acquiring a full-on certified stalker.

If you’ve thoroughly enjoyed the liberation and pleasure of the sexual encounter, don’t confuse these feelings with meaningful affection. Revel in the anonymity and physical gratification. Move on in your life, and recognize the relationship for what it was worth–great, unapologetic sex.

 Avoid the walk of shame.

It’s difficult to prepare for this inevitable byproduct of a random run-in, but if you’re smart, there are ways to avoid the embarrassment of the walk of shame. For women, the light of morning can be horrifying when you’re dressed to the nines in stilletto heels and a skin-tight club dress.

Ladies on the prowl need to think ahead, stowing makeup remover and wearing an outfit that can be slightly altered or covered up for a discreet getaway. If you’re fabulous enough to not care, then be confident in yourself and stroll down the street with pride.

Don’t be ashamed.

Society wants to make women feel like sluts, but there’s nothing wrong with seeking random, uninhibited safe sex. For people new to casual encounters, it can be difficult to overcome the overwhelming feelings of shame ingrained in their minds when it comes to sex–and even worse, a one night stand.

If you keep safety in mind and revel in the indulgence, keep your head held high and exercise your complete freedom of choice when it comes to your body. If you want, brag proudly about your sexual exploits, and embrace your life in the way any man would.

Protect yourself in the future.

Assuming you’ve already thoroughly protected yourself, learn from the subtle dynamic of your one night stand. After an initial one-time encounter, be prepared with all the appropriate protection you need to enjoy worry-free sexual pleasure. You never can assume that a hot stranger comes equipped with contraception, lube, or toys you’d like to experiment with.

As always, don’t forget to pick your partners wisely. Adapt your game as time goes on, and always keep your health and well-being in mind. Look for the tell-tale signs of crazy, and if you’re unsure, move on to the next person.