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The difference between a good one-night stand and a great one are these five simple questions:

1: What are they looking for tonight?

Above all, make sure that the one-night stand is only looking for a one-night stand (with a possibility of future booty calls, of course). Nothing is worse than finding out that one night of fun for one person is practically getting engaged to the other!

2: What are their future plans?

The best way to get those future booty calls is to treat the one-night stand like more than a one-night stand. Typical date rules still apply–finding out what she does and what her five year plans are is a great way to stand out from other hook-ups who treat her like she’s a disposable toy.

3: What they would like for breakfast?

This is a great “two-for-one” kind of question because it signifies to the date the intention of a one-night stand–that she will still be there in the morning. And it’s a functional, courteous question–the lover that is cooking her favorite omelettes in the morning is going to see more repeat business than the lover who tells her to just find something in the fridge.

4: What are their favorite activities on a date?

This is another question both fun and functional. If in the middle of a date, it helps in planning out the rest of the night. Customizing the rest of the date to her idea of fun helps to make sure she’s interested in that omelette breakfast, and hearing about what she thinks is fun helps to gauge her personality…valuable clues to have before the bedroom door shuts.

5: What is their impression of you?

This helps with making light conversation, but is also a good investment in finding future partners–knowing that she instantly liked the hair or hated the outfit means there’s a chance to adjust certain things before going out on the prowl next time!

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Fling and the City
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On-line dating sites and mobile apps for hook-ups enable casual sexual encounters. The opportunities for sexual adventures in any major city are outstanding.

Here are five common types of one-night stands and ways to have a better experience:

I Got So Drunk Last Night

Drinking alcohol removes inhibitions, which is good, but also creates poor judgment that may have unintended consequences. To avoid a nasty surprise, during the morning after, do not invite hook-ups to your home. A hotel room is better. If possible, rent the hotel room for only a few hours. Take a taxi home before morning. In this way, there are only fuzzy memories of the night before and it is easier to deal with a massive hangover alone.

Escaping from One that Won’t Let Go

Trying to change a one-night sexual encounter into a longer relationship usually ruins the game. To get out of this jam as quickly as possible, have someone else call at the appropriate time with an emergency need. There is a nice exception to this rule when both sexual partners want the one-night stand to develop into a friendship with benefits, for late-night “booty” calls in the future.

Get Freaky

One-night stands are opportunities to express sexual freedom and try exciting new things like a three-way or to explore sexual fantasies. It is easier to communicate specific sexual desires electronically, before actually meeting face-to-face. Don’t be shy. Be explicit and offer many details of what the encounter should be like.

Foreigner Visitors and Others on Vacation

Anyone in the city for only a short time and those new to the area want to have as much fun as possible. Limited time in the city prevents the forming of longer-term relationships. This time pressure helps visitors be comfortable with quickly getting to the good part, which is having hot sex with a stranger.

 

 

Business Casual

Meet potential sexual partners at business parties, company events, conferences, seminars, and even chance encounters at the hotel. Besides the hotel bar, try the fitness room and/or swimming pool. Invite a “hottie” back to the room for a cocktail.

Summary

Opportunities for one-night stands are readily available in any big city. Stay safe and have an approach that makes the encounters more enjoyable.

Fling and the City
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hookups for 2016
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Are you looking to spice up your love life for 2016? Rather than continue a series of needless lonely nights, consider taking charge of your sex life and take some chances. Confused as to where to begin? The following is a short guide to demonstrate how to make your 2016 a year filled with hookups.

Make Over

First thing’s first: New Year, new look! While many underestimate the amazing effects that changing your appearance can have on your sex life, take one look at social media and you’ll see that those who receive the most sexually-charged attention, also typically post sexy photos of themselves. Try cutting your hair, switch up your style of clothes, and making love to that camera. You’ll have random hookup requests filling up your inbox in no time.

Join a Dating Site

In the age of social media, it seems that most of us have grown accustomed to dating only those we meet online first. A great way to find those interested in hooking up from the comfort of your own computer or phone, try joining a site that promotes hookups and being honest about your intentions from the very beginning.

Be Bold!

Lastly, remember to be bold in your actions and requests. People are attracted to individuals that know what they want. While the thought of asking someone to meet up later or even accompany you to your home may frighten you, you’ll never know if you don’t ask. Many people are shy when it comes to sex and relationship matters. Nevertheless, you will often find that you receive fairly positive responses if you only have the courage to ask. This is not to say you should go around asking everyone you see to have sex with you. However, if the mood is right and you think they might be up for it, simply ask them. You might be pleasantly surprised!

Overall, hookups don’t have to be few and far between. Follow these tips and tricks and you’ll be well on your way to making 2016 a year of hookups!

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Fling On New Year's Eve
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Looking For A  Fling On New Year’s Eve?

No one in NYC wants to be alone on New Year’s Eve. If you are looking for companionship, you won’t find it sitting at home on the couch. Even if you are newly single and not sure of where to start looking, there are always places to go to find others who are in the same situation. Bars and nightclubs in NYC are not the only places lonely people go to hang out. In fact, some people avoid them for fear of being the only one without a partner.

Look Where You Least Expect It

Whether  you are looking for a one time hookup or someone who you can call on a regular basis, go to places where you would least expect to find a date. Book stores, small cafes, etc. where people go to spend quiet time and find solitude. Many people go to these places simply because they have no one to share their time with. The key is finding people who seem as if they are searching for something. Many are there for no particular purpose, but were looking for something to do. If you really want to find a fling, show a little interest and see if they return the gesture. You never know until you try.

 

Don’t Be Overly Aggressive

Sometimes the best way to intrigue someone is to show a mild level of interest and then leave it at that. If they are truly looking for a hookup, they will pursue you. If the interaction begins to stall, you can always spark a little more interest, but going overboard may drive them away. Most people who want a fling are not looking for deep conversation or an overzealous mate. Offer companionship with a few benefits and see how the situation plays itself out.

Fling On New Year's Eve
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morning sex
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Waking up to a round of sex is what a lot of couples do on a regular basis. Morning sex is a way to enjoy life to its fullest.

Nevertheless, there are many out there who do not extol the virtues of rising with sex. They believe that the “dirty deed” is best completed during the night. Well, these naysayers could not be further from the truth.

There is a lot positive to be said about hot morning sex. So, to help persuade anyone still sitting on the proverbial fence, following are the top six reason why couples should enjoy a normal morning sex routine.

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1. Morning Sex is a Relaxing Start to the Day

Daily life can be stressful. From commuting to work to attending long meetings, we all feel the negative effects. Morning sex is a smart way to start off the day. Sex puts problems in perspective. Rather than focus on the obstacles blocking your path, your mind holds on to the good feelings experienced just a few hours earlier.

2. You Can Finish What You Started the Previous Night

Ever feel as if waking up and leaving the morning after a night of sex is leaving incomplete business? We all have. That is because when you say bye to your lover, the good times took place hours in the past. It is much more rational to complete another session of lovemaking, then part on the best of terms. Doing so is finishing what you started.

3. You Can See Clearly Now

A clear mind is better than one clogged with random thoughts. Sex in the morning allows you to depart for the day without all the extra baggage. It is similar to getting a relieving massage, only a lot better.

 

4. It May Be Your Last Time

Hey, let us face it, we never know when it might be our last time in the sack with a lover. Tomorrow is never promised to anyone. Always have as much sex as possible. Wake up and get the job done one more time. It may be your last.

5. Make Them Think About You All Day

Anybody trying to catch a mate knows that sex works. The best way to make them think about you all day is to engage in morning sex. You will be their first thought upon waking. They will then have no choice but to enjoy the memories while at work. More than likely, you will receive a call from them setting up another date.

 

 

 

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she wants you just for sex
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Any man who is on the market should be aware of the fact that many modern women are simply using the opposite gender for sex. While men still objectify women, plenty of women objectify men nowadays. Though it might be hard for some to believe, there really are women on the dating scene who are strictly interested in sex as opposed to a genuine relationship.

The best way to figure out if a woman is using you for sex is if she does not show any interest in spending time with you outside of the bedroom. A woman who is all about sex will not go out to dinner with you on a regular basis. Nor will she be interested in seeing a movie with you, watching the big game, taking long walks in the park or performing any other traditional activities (outside of sex) enjoyed by couples.

Consider the course of the conversations you have with your current lover. If the woman you are dating can’t carry on a conversation with you for at least a few minutes, she might be using you for sex. Consider whether your current flame leaves right after you make love. If she hops on out of bed to spend the rest of the night at her own place or if she heads on out early the next morning without interacting with you, she likely views you as nothing more than a piece of meat.

True relationships are about much more than physical attraction. Real lovers desire to spend as much time as possible with their significant other, be it in the bedroom, living room, kitchen or out in public. A woman who makes time for sex but won’t spend much time with you outside of the bedroom is one who is not interested in developing a genuine, well-balanced and healthy relationship. Do not let this happen. Let it be known that you desire a legitimate relationship that involves more than physical attraction.

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As we grow older to adulthood, we realize that the world is full of interesting and sometimes amazing strangers. At least every day, we come across a potential new friend. It becomes even more interesting when one is looking for a potential are a mere partner online. The only challenge that majority of the adults are facing today is how to break the ice and get the conversation rolling. The following tips will help you start up, a conversation in an adult dating site.

1. Look for something interesting.

It is obvious when you want someone to talk to; you got to have something that you can talk about. Starting a conversation with “hey” brings a full stop at a conversation. Instead, you can form an interesting question or a brilliant observation. Sometimes a creative comment also works. A brilliant observation about his or her profile picture or a comment about a profile picture will insinuate a conversation.

2. Get the other person talking

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People like talking when they are at ease.  For the conversation to start and continue on a good mood, make it fun.  It is usually advisable to make it easy by asking relevant questions and being a good listener. Make sure you are keen on the follow-up question. If your observation, for instance, about the profile picture was of a waterfall, try as much as s possible to ask about the trip.

 

3. Finally, be playful.

Bring your humor A- game at this point.  If you think it is okay to reference some funny songs, do it.  The caution about this, however, is that one should try to be themselves as possible.  Never confuse this with being childish; the latter is a turn-off. Make some funny comments about your observations but don’t lose your sensitivity. Be sensitive and creative. Eventually, when the conversation is on, don’t keep the other person waiting.  If you want to chat online, be ready to chat, reply as quickly as possible.

 

 

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Sexual Positions
Sexual Positions

If you’re going to be hooking up with a sexy partner for a fun fling, then you are likely to want to ensure the sex is super hot. In order to ensure this, you should choose some of the best sexual positions, which could really ramp things up. Here is an overview of 6 sexual positions for the most successful fling:

Doggie style

This position is perfect for several reasons. First of all, since you’re only interested in hookups, then you’re not looking for any emotional attachment. This position doesn’t enable any kissing, which many people only looking for flings aren’t interested in. Another great thing about doggie style is the fact that it allows for very deep penetration, which can increase the sex in a significant manner.

69

Oral sex is always good, even when the sex is only casual. The 69 position is an oldie but goodie that enables you and your partner to pleasure each other simultaneously with your mouths. You will both be in for a real treat, as you climax together all night long.

 

Modified missionary

If you’re looking for some serious enjoyment, then modifying the missionary position somewhat can really rev things up. The position can be modified by placing a pillow under the woman’s bottom, which forces the body farther back, allowing for deeper penetration and optimal clitoral stimulation.

Sexual Positions
Sexual Positions

Reverse cowgirl

This position requires that the woman sit on top of the man, although facing the opposite direction. It enables the penis to stroke from a different angle, leading to deep penetration, ample clitoral stimulation, and explosive orgasms.

 

 

Spooning

This position is wonderful because it enables stimulation in a different manner, which can be especially thrilling. The woman lies on her side, and the man “spoons” her, entering from behind. Speed can be a combination of fast or slow, or anything in-between.

Standing against a wall

This position can be awkward in the beginning, although once it’s perfected it can be quite fun. The woman will stand against the wall, with one leg lifted. She will wrap that leg around her partner, squatting down a bit to make insertion easier. A total winner!

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Couple Looking for a Woman
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If you and your partner are looking to add another person to your sex life, you are not alone. According to the LELO 2014 Global Sex Survey, a whopping 20 percent of women have taken part in a threesome; this number up 10 percent from just two years prior.

Couple Looking for a Woman
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While this number might be higher or lower than you expected, you can bet that a higher percentage of women have fantasized about it.  For some women, it is a fantasy they like to think about but don’t wish to act on. For others, the idea of a threesome involving another female is so erotic that they are more than willing to give it a go–if they can only find someone to join in.

Finding a Third

If you and your partner are of the “more than willing” variety, the only thing standing in your way might be finding another willing party. You can check with friends, but this presents an awkward situation if the person declines. The best way to find a third is to use an online forum such as SexNDate where people state exactly what they are looking for in a casual sex encounter.

 Tips for a Successful Threesome

Once you find the right addition to your fantasy, there are a few ways you can make your ménage à trois more successful.

  • Set Some Rules – You can reduce insecurities by setting ground rules. All parties should freely state what they are up for and what is off limits.
  • Meet in a Public Place – If you have only video-chatted or spoke on the phone, consider meeting in a public place such as a hotel lounge. Get to know one another a bit before moving things to the bedroom.

Threesomes are a way to spice up any relationship, whether committed or casual, as long as both partners are confident in the decision.

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Addicted to Sex
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Are you addicted to sex? Hmmm, well, we guess there are worse addictions to have.

Do you always want to fulfill those urges deep down in your bones? Finding it hard to do so? That is not uncommon. The problem for most women is finding a large supply of willing, appropriate sex partners. Having a sex addiction and being left cold turkey is a sure downer.

So what can be done? Not much, some would believe. After all, the availability of safe sex partners is a bit limited, even in New York City. Pick up bars and nightclubs do not do the trick. You never know if the guy will be a complete dud.

Addicted to Sex
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If you are a woman who wants to get down to business in bed, without all the silly games, you need to increase the odds of finding that right man. You need a place where men are virtually falling from the sky! Raining men! Now that would be heaven!

It might be wise for such women, who desire to fulfill their urges safely, without having to worry about meeting strange men in a bar, to check out SexNDate. This site provides an almost unlimited supply of male, and female, sex partners. Though focused on the New York dating scene, anyone can join SexNDate anytime. Just set up a profile to begin making connections with like-minded folks, who know how to please a lover.

 

 

In place of the anxiety about being left unfulfilled, SexNDate users enjoy the relief of knowing that a date is only a click away. All they have to do is browse through the catalog and choose a partner who matches their needs and desires.

If you are addicted to sex and like checking out male bulges on the regular, think about sex more than 10 times a day or always want to have a ready supply of willing men, then SexNDate is a good option.

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