Since the popularity of MTV’s hit show, Catfish, more and more women are worried that they guy that they are meeting online, is actually not the guy who they are pretending to be. Because a person can remain hidden and anonymous on the internet, women who are trying to meet men on adulte dating sites cannot be sure who they are meeting. Whether are on an adult dating site for no strings attached sex, or a real relationship, you still should know if the guy they are going to be hooking up with is the same guy in his photos. If you are a woman on one of these sites, there are a few ways to know if he is a real guy, or if he is a cat-fish.
Are His Photos All Modeling Photos?
If you look at all of the photos on his dating profile, and they all look like they are professional modeling shots, chances are you are being catfished. Most men who are who they claim to be will have candid shots of themselves. Even real models will not use just their modeling shots on dating profile sites.
Try to Find Him on Social Media Sites
The best way to know if he is really who he says he is, is to ask for his Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter account names. If he has none of the above, chances are he is not real. If he does give you account names, make sure that he has more than a few friends. Anyone can quickly set up an account to make you believe what they want you to believe. If he has a high friend count, and he posts status updates and photos often, he is most likely genuine.
Ask to Skype or FaceTime with Him
The best way to be sure that you are talking to the person that you think you are is to ask him to Skype or FaceTime with you. If he refuses, it is a serious red flag. You should ask him a few times before getting worried. If he says he cannot FaceTime, chances are he does not have an iPhone. If that is the case, ask him to Skype. It can easily be downloaded, and can be used on any smartphone or laptop.
When you are using adulte dating sites, it is a good idea to be sure that the man you are taking to is genuine. As long as you know a few, simple Catfish tips, you can be sure that you are not being duped.
