How to Do a Sexy Lap Dance

A sexy lap dance is all about paying attention to detail. These five tips ensure that you will master all of the essential steps towards giving a mind-blowing and sensual lap dance.

Choose the Right Setting and Clothes

A sexy lap dance depends on the right setting and alluring apparel. Intimate settings with candles and low lighting will set the mood instantly, and your partner will appreciate the seductive mood you set. Take that mood to the next level by looking the part with lingerie or sexy apparel that accentuates your figure.

In addition to showcasing your body with lingerie that suits your body type, spice it up with an eye-catching color. Red lingerie is always a great lap dance, and be sure that the lingerie you choose doesn’t restrict your movement. You want the lingerie that you wear to flow freely and, if you are performing a striptease with your lap dance, the lingerie should be easy to take off. 

You should also strongly consider adding a great pair of heels into the mix. Not only will it give your behind a perky lift, but you’ll also be able to perform a sultry and confident walk that enhances the seductive vibe. 

Don’t Forget to Breathe

For a great lap dance for both you and your partner, proper breathing techniques are essential. Breathing calms nerves while keeping your body moving gracefully. Take a few deep breaths and exhale before beginning your dance, and remember to breathe during the dance, and you are well on your way to providing your partner with a memorable lap dance.

Sensual Means Slow Movements and Seductive Music

If there is one rule to follow when it comes to lap dances it is this: Make the performance slow and sensual. It is easier to deliver a sensual performance with slow and sensual movement. R&B with a slow and rhythmic pace is a perfect way to ease into a sexy lap dance. Match the music by exaggerating your movements into a slow tempo that allows you to really feel the movement and emotions of the dance. 

Implement the Basics

To start, have your partner sitting down in a chair expectantly. Seductively walk or crawl to the chair before mounting it. Use the back of the chair or your partner’s shoulders for support, and gyrate in slow and circular motions with your butt. This simple move is sure to arouse our partner. 

Take Things to the Next Level with Advanced Moves

Now, it’s time to take things to the next level and blow your lucky lap dance recipient’s mind. A great advanced move that will drive your partner crazy is to lead with your butt by turning around and backing into him. Keep backing up until you land in your partner’s lap, and then get crazy. Moving your butt all over your partner’s body will drive them crazy and ensures that you have delivered one sexy and fulfilling lap dance.