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sexual fantasies
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sexual fantasies
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If you want to enhance your sex life, look no further than these four fantasies , which are among the most common.

1. Bondage Fantasies

Wanting to be tied up or to tie someone else up ranks highly on the list of sexual fantasies most people want to try. There’s something about being unable to move while your partner does everything he or she desires or having that control that’s completely alluring. There’s no shortage of methods to bind someone, either. From handcuffs to leather straps, ball gags to blind folds, you can experiment forever.

2. Stranger Sex

Many people fantasize about having sex with a stranger, or at least playing out a scene that looks like this! This is where an adult dating site can come in handy. Simply meet up with someone who shares the same fantasy and sneak off to the bathroom, closet or even a hotel room for a quickie that no one ever has to know about. You can pretend like you’ve never met your partner before if you don’t actually want to sleep with a stranger.

3. Threesomes

Most people think that it’s just men who desire threesomes, but that’s not the case. Adding another person to the bedroom and seeing them provide your partner with pleasure — as well as receiving extra pleasure yourself — is quite exhilarating! FMF and MMF threesomes are among the most popular pairings, but you can have a love of fun realizing this fantasy with same-sex partners, too.

4. Voyeurism and Exhibition

Does it get your motor running to watch your partner masturbate? Perhaps you like to do it when he or she doesn’t notice. Or you might be the one doing the dirty while someone watches from afar, and the knowledge makes it so much more enjoyable for you. Being a voyeur or an exhibitionist is a common fantasy, and the two go hand in hand!

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Finding a Partner
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Whether you’re in a relationship where your sexual needs aren’t being met, or you are single and desiring a good night of passion, there are ways to find great, free sex. You may be wondering how to go about doing so without having any strings attached. There are ways to go about finding the perfect partner for a hot night of sex, and here are some tips for doing so in the easiest manner possible:

Visit chat rooms & dating websites

The sky is the limit when it comes to finding sex partners online. With the abundance of adult dating websites, you can easily find some very attractive and willing sex partners who aren’t looking for a commitment. When navigating the various websites, be sure to search for prospective dates who have specified that they’re also looking for “hook-ups” only and not a committed relationship. If you’re not sure, then you need to ask and make your expectations known upfront.

Ask friends & family members

You might feel uncomfortable asking friends about hook-up buddies, but if the people that know you are aware of what you’re looking for, then they can set you up with others who may be looking for a romp in the hay, as well. This actually makes it easy on you, because you don’t have to explain yourself once you meet prospective dates, since they will already be on the same page. You might be surprised at how those that you know might introduce you to interesting people who can share pantasies with you.

Choose the right hangouts

The specific hangouts that you frequent are more important than you might believe. If you hang out at bars, then you need to hang out at the right ones. You should choose joints with lots of sexually-charged men and women, so you can increase your luck. Perform research about the local bars or ask others where the best establishments are for finding bed buddies.

 

Finding a Partner
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swingers

There’s love, there’s marriage, and there’s swinging even after the baby carriage. Just because you have a dedicated love relationship with another person does not necessarily mean there is now some artificial limit on sexual enjoyment. Love and sex can go together and they also can be separate.

Besides exploring your partner in a variety of delightful ways, it is also fun as a couple to explore “swinging.” As consenting adults, we can be in a relationship, be married, and still enjoy sexual play by being a swinger. It is especially easy and fun to find hookups for swingers in New York. Besides having some of the most interesting live swinging clubs on the planet, using the sexndate online system makes it easy to find the perfect playmate for swinging games.

In fact, at the live venues it can be hit or miss depending on timing and luck. In reality, finding a swinging partner through an online system, like sexndate, is more likely to produce a good result. Photos can be exchanged and proclivities discussed in great detail before meeting for the hookup, which should be fun for all involved.swingers

One fun game, enjoyed by couples, is playacting or role-play. People can take on the persona of an imagined character and give themselves the freedom to express the sexual desires that they really enjoy. Three-ways enjoyed by couples can really spice up their sex life. Almost everyone has some same-gender attractions or at least curiosity. Bi-sexual exploration uncovers new enjoyable experiences in a less stressful way that trying same gender stuff for the first time alone. Swinging allows exploration of various combinations that please both male and female partners. Moreover, using sex toys adds to the excitement. Don’t be afraid to try new things.

Another fun part of swinging in NYC is for those that like to watch. Being a swinging voyeur is like enjoying great porno, yet watching the goings on, close up, and in real life. Some like to record their private sessions on video, as if they are making porno, because it is fun to watch the videos before taking on round two. Nothing stops people from having a wonderful sex life. The swinger scene in NYC is ready to party along.

 

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A sexy lap dance is all about paying attention to detail. These five tips ensure that you will master all of the essential steps towards giving a mind-blowing and sensual lap dance.

Sexy Lap Dance
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Choose the Right Setting and Clothes

A sexy lap dance depends on the right setting and alluring apparel. Intimate settings with candles and low lighting will set the mood instantly, and your partner will appreciate the seductive mood you set. Take that mood to the next level by looking the part with lingerie or sexy apparel that accentuates your figure.

In addition to showcasing your body with lingerie that suits your body type, spice it up with an eye-catching color. Red lingerie is always a great lap dance, and be sure that the lingerie you choose doesn’t restrict your movement. You want the lingerie that you wear to flow freely and, if you are performing a striptease with your lap dance, the lingerie should be easy to take off. 

You should also strongly consider adding a great pair of heels into the mix. Not only will it give your behind a perky lift, but you’ll also be able to perform a sultry and confident walk that enhances the seductive vibe. 

Don’t Forget to Breathe

For a great lap dance for both you and your partner, proper breathing techniques are essential. Breathing calms nerves while keeping your body moving gracefully. Take a few deep breaths and exhale before beginning your dance, and remember to breathe during the dance, and you are well on your way to providing your partner with a memorable lap dance.

Sensual Means Slow Movements and Seductive Music

If there is one rule to follow when it comes to lap dances it is this: Make the performance slow and sensual. It is easier to deliver a sensual performance with slow and sensual movement. R&B with a slow and rhythmic pace is a perfect way to ease into a sexy lap dance. Match the music by exaggerating your movements into a slow tempo that allows you to really feel the movement and emotions of the dance. 

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Implement the Basics

To start, have your partner sitting down in a chair expectantly. Seductively walk or crawl to the chair before mounting it. Use the back of the chair or your partner’s shoulders for support, and gyrate in slow and circular motions with your butt. This simple move is sure to arouse our partner. 

Take Things to the Next Level with Advanced Moves

Now, it’s time to take things to the next level and blow your lucky lap dance recipient’s mind. A great advanced move that will drive your partner crazy is to lead with your butt by turning around and backing into him. Keep backing up until you land in your partner’s lap, and then get crazy. Moving your butt all over your partner’s body will drive them crazy and ensures that you have delivered one sexy and fulfilling lap dance. 

 

 

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Open Relationship
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Open Relationship
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Romantic relationships usually begin the same way; two people find each other and agree to commit to one another and no one else. But, in some cases, two people come together, fall in love, and agree to commit to each other while also keeping their options open for other relationships to form. This is an attractive situation that can be tough to pitch to your boyfriend or husband. How do you convince the man in your life to open of the gates of your relationship for others to enter?

  1. Ease your way into the conversation- When you decide that you want to have an open relationship, it is important to take your time with your significant other. Talk to them about why you think an open relationship would work for you both, what that would mean, and what sort of boundaries would be set. Don’t expect an answer at the end of the conversation. Allow them to think about it for a week or more if needed.
  2. Consider how the situation will benefit them- When your boyfriend or husband hears that you want an open relationship, the first thing to come to their mind will likely be the assumption that there is a problem in the relationship. Reassure them that there is nothing wrong with your relationship and tell them the benefits they will experience by entering an open relationship. Help them understand that they are equally a part of the open relationship as you are.
  3. Reassure them it is not just about sex- When most people think about open relationships, they think that it is all about sexual gain. There should definitely be an emotional need being met as well as physical. Explain that to your partner and make sure that they understand that they are not inadequate in some way and causing you to seek an open relationship.
  4. Set boundaries upfront- Boundaries are so extremely important in all of the relationships we encounter. Talk to your partner and make sure you two are on the same page about what to expect from an open relationship, what is allowed, and what is considered cheating. Once boundaries are clearly laid out and understood, your partner will feel more at ease because they will know exactly what they are getting themselves in to.

 

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