How to Flirt Online?

Flirting online is like flirting in person, except online chat uses abbreviations. For example, instead of typing “that is really funny,” use “LOL.” This stands for “laughing out loud.” Pretty much everyone who has been chatting online knows that one. However, other acronyms bring flirtation to a new level. Try these:

• AAS – Alive and smiling
• ADIDAS – All day I dream about sex
• BHG – Big-hearted guy or girl
• BSAAW – Big smile and a wink
• Chillaxin – To be both “chilling” (taking it easy) and relaxing.
• CS&F – Cute, sexy and funny
• DDG – Drop dead gorgeous
• DWWWI – Surfing the web while drunk
• H&K – Hugs and kisses
• HMU – Hit me up
• IMP -I’m posting naked (good to use with a winking smiley emoticon)
• LHU -Let’s hook up
• LIB – Lying in bed
• NTMU – Nice to meet you
• PIMP – Peeing in my pants
• YBY – Yeah baby yeah

Flirtation is the art of being interesting to get the other person interested. This works in reverse. To be more interesting, show more interest in the other person.

The direct approach is not very effective. Saying things like “You look hot,” “You have great tits,” or “Are you hard yet?” is a turn off, not a turn on. It is obvious that there is a physical attraction if photos have been seen or exchanged so that can be assumed.

It is better to talk about positive things not directly related to appearance. This is especially true for guys wanting to hookup with attractive women. It is nice for the women to know that they are respected as a full person not just as a pair of tits. If profile information is available, then talk about those things.

Another good way to keep the conversation interesting is to make up hypothetical references that create curiosity in the other person. Tell a story that stops on a cliffhanger. Here is an example:

“I heard lots of banging from the neighbors next door last night. I am not sure if they were fighting or making love. I’ll find out and let you know.”

Flirting is a big part of the art of seduction. Being seduced means one is desired and then the other person does things to carry them away. Always end on a future suggestion that gives a good reason to reconnect again.