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Spin the Bottle for Toys, Sexy Hide and Seek, and Twenty Fantasy Questions

These are new “spins” on well-known games. Put sex toys on the table. Spin a bottle and use the toy it points to on your partner.

As an alternative, hide sex toys around the house and let your partner find them, then use them on each other. If your sex partner comes back from the kitchen with a spatula or turkey baster that does not count, unless of course if you want it to be used.

A fun game is where one person asks the other a serious of twenty, yes or no, questions to guess their secret sexual fantasy and then the lovers perform the fantasy together.

Sexy Cards

This game requires a deck of playing cards and a timer that goes up to fifteen minutes. Using a deck of cards, alternate picking a card one by one and do these things to the other person for the different suits:

  • Spades – massage
  • Hearts – kissing
  • Diamonds – manual stimulation
  • Clubs – oral sex

The higher the card to longer you do it, with Aces equal to fourteen minutes, Kings are thirteen, Queens are twelve, Jacks are eleven minutes, and the rest of the cards are for their number, except for the Jokers. If a Joker is chosen, the other person gets to choose what you do for a full fifteen minutes. Play until you give up from exhaustion.

 

Get it On in the Closet or Outdoors

Now that gays are coming out of the closet, it is time to go back in. Pretend you are having an affair or a lurid quickie that requires hiding from others. For those who want to take extra risk, do this in a place where you really can be discovered by others and have quick sex at rabbit-like pace to avoid discovery.

Find an isolated place in a beautiful natural setting. Pretend you are in the Garden of Eden where nudity is the norm. Get naked and get it on. Sex is super invigorating on a remote mountaintop after a hike, or while bathing in a cool stream.

Playing sexy games is a fun and healthy way to keep a relationship exciting.

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Addicted to Sex
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While a sex addiction is not as obvious as a drug or alcohol addiction, it is a very real disease. For a younger person, they may be viewed as someone who is simply “enjoying life.” An older person may be deemed “not marriage material.” Here are just a few signs that you may be addicted to sex.

Always Seeking Sexual Material

Addicted to Sex
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One of the hallmarks of sexual addiction is that you are always seeking out sexual material. This sexual media can come in different forms. The most obvious form is pornographic websites. You may also have every hook up app installed on your cell phone. If you find that most of your time online is spent viewing sexual material, you may have a problem.

Leading a Double Life

Whether you have a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a wife, or a husband, the expectation is usually one of monogamy. There are different reasons that people cheat on their significant others. However, if you have never been faithful in a relationship and most of your break ups are because of you cheating, that is another sign of sexual addiction.

It is important to note that the term cheating does not always mean the act of intercourse. It can start with what you may think is harmless flirting and conversation. Whether the result is ending up going all the way, it may be a serious indicator of addiction.

Compromising Work and Personal Relationships

When you have any kind of addiction, including one of a sexual nature, you will habitually put your sexual needs ahead of everything else in your life. You may find that you are ditching work for sexual adventures. You may even engage in sexual activity at work.

When it comes to personal relationships, those with significant others are not the only ones that suffer. You may find that you sleep with the significant others of friends and family members. You may even be labeled as the one that cannot be trusted around others.

Even though many people may make light of having many sexual exploits, it can be debilitating. If you find that most of your time and thoughts are consumed by the need to engage in sexual activity whether it is intercourse with another person, masturbation, or viewing porn excessively, it may be time to seek professional help.

 

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Perfect Orgasm

Perfect OrgasmStop putting your needs on the backburner ladies! You got to go out and get yours, too! Here are some key ways to get the perfect orgasm from your man or just from a hook up.

  1. Discover What You Like

How can you get the perfect orgasm if you won’t even know what you like? Take some time to use your fingers or toys to discover what feels best for you. This will take a few solo sessions to determine what feels good for you, but hey, at least you’ll have fun doing it. Make sure you play around with a few techniques.

  1. Tell Him

Whether his head is in between your legs, he has his fingers inside you or his member deep within you, get vocal when he’s doing something right by moaning or screaming. Even calling out his name or saying, “That feels amazing” is enough to let him know you’re enjoying it. If he’s getting you close with a certain maneuver, let him know you’re close, that way, he’ll know to keep doing what he’s doing. If you feel like that motion he’s doing with his tongue is going to make you cum, then tell him to keep doing it. If he’s doing something you don’t like, let him know. Don’t waste his time or yours. This leads to neither of you feeling fulfilled after. Maybe you go through an entire session and feel like he just doesn’t have a clue. Don’t hesitate to request something during the act. You can also move him to a position you want him in or even move your hips to make it feel good for you.

  1. Help Him

If he’s hitting it from behind and you know that just isn’t going to work for you without some clit stimulation, then use your hands. While he’s fingering you, feel free to lick your fingers and begin massaging your pearl. He won’t be offended, but he just might be a bit turned on. Don’t hesitate to add sex toys to the mix in order to achieve the perfect orgasm.

 

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The Naughty Office Visit
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If you have been in a serious committed relationship for a while now whether you are married or not then you might find that your sex life is lagging a bit. Most couples go through up and down spells of sexual lust towards their partner, so what should you do if you want to surprise your man in a sexy way? There are a number of exciting options to choose from. Men aren’t that hard to turn on, since they basically think about sex 24 hours a day! A lot of women do as well, you’d be surprised. Here are a few ways to surprise your man when you want sex just as much as he does.

The Welcome Home

In order to pull this off ladies, you might need to go shopping. Has he seen all your sexiest lingerie to the point where it doesn’t affect him anymore? Time to visit your local sex shop. Buy a body stocking. If you have never worn one of these before you’re man will be on his needs with desire. They are sheer, black, usually lacy or made of netting that hugs your curves in all the right ways. Pair the sexy stocking with a pair of heels, lay yourself out on the couch right when he comes home, and get ready for the fireworks. He’ll be so happy to be home with you in that position ready for sex.

The Naughty Office Visit

The Naughty Office Visit
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This only works if your man has his own office at work. If he works at a department store, then you are out of luck. So put on something sexy, or if you dare…nothing at all and cover yourself with a trench coat. It’s old school glamour, but it’s hot. Then surprise him around lunchtime at the office, close his door, lock it, and show him a good time right smack in the middle of the day. He won’t even know what to say! But he’ll sure know what to do. You.

The Surprise Sexy Text

Most couples get into a rut texting. You might text about your day to check in, something about the kids, or just a “hey can you pick up milk on your way home?” Boring, boring, boring. Blow his mind by sending him the most sexually explicit text out of the blue. Something along the lines of, “I can’t wait til I get you alone tonight to do A, B, and C”…you get the picture.

Wake Up With a Smile and a BJ

Treat your man to a surprise wake up with his member in your mouth. Guys adore waking up in this way. It’s guaranteed to make him smile for the rest of the day in anticipation of getting back home to his sexy sexy partner.

 

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sex tape

Making your own home pornography is an exciting way to spice up a relationship. Plus, it creates everlasting memories of your intimate time together. However, there might be a few rules you make to ensure sure you’re both on the same page and to create the best pornographic photos.

1. Set Rules About Privacy
Make sure you let him know you don’t want anyone else to see. Although it’s common courtesy to keep sexual moments between the two of you, you don’t want any blurred lines.

2. Camera Quality Matters
Purchase a decent camera. Your cell phone doesn’t take the best quality photos or videos. You may want to invest in a camera that does both video and pictures.

3. Natural Light
When you shoot, use natural lighting. If not, you might find that there are weird shadows and your skin looks a weird color.

4. Try Different Looks
Make sure you experiment with different styles of lingerie and different angles of the camera. You don’t want the same shot over and over again. You want more than one photo to choose from, and you want variety. Don’t you hate when you go online and find too many of the same video or picture? The same goes for porn. Make it original!

5. Have Fun With ItDon’t take the photoshoot so seriously. Have fun with it. Feel free to photograph the cumshot on her face or let her get in front of the camera and fondle herself. Feel free to have both of you in the pictures and use the “auto” feature on the camera. A man can always touch his lady on camera, but just make sure it looks natural and not staged.

6. Take a Few Practice Shots
Let the first few pictures you take be the ones that are like the first pancake. They don’t have to be perfect or even good. Sometimes, there just a warm-up for the real deal.

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pick-up bar

If you are a hot single guy then you might be on a few online dating websites, or enjoy meeting girls the traditional way at a local bar or inviting club in your home town. The question becomes which is an easier way to pick up girls? Online with a service or app such as Tinder, which allows you to scroll through various girls in your area who you think are attractive, who might find you as attractive as well, or are you one of those lucky guys who can snag any girl anywhere at a bar. Think about it. Do you have the confidence, smarts, and good looks to have your pick of ladies at your local watering hole? Or do you find that most women in bars are all too ready to give you the brush-off even when you offer to buy them a drink? What if you just want a girl for the night? No, I’m not talking about going into hooker or call girl territory, you don’t want that. But what if you are ready for a simple one night stand with a hot hot lady? Just sex, no strings. The options become then…pick up at a bar or Tinder.pick-up bar

Tinder describes itself as a “location based social discovery” app. That’s a fancy way of saying “booty calls here!” If you have tried Tinder, and you are fairly good looking then you might have some success with it especially if you live in a major city like Chicago, Miami, or NYC. You’ll have less luck with the service is you live in a small town like Duluth, Minnesota. Then you might as well head out to the one bar in town to take your chances for lust there. Big cities have an active TInder based clientele to choose from. Odds are you will get lucky.

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ADULT DATIN

When the relationship has grown dull and you need something to rekindle the passion, think discreet dating. ADULT DATINThere are a number of benefits to having someone outside of your marriage or long term relationship.

Benefit #1: Sex

Let’s all be adult about this. Sex is one of the central parts of a relationship. While many pretend to be more concerned about getting to know their partner than sleeping with them, several studies have proven that sexual intercourse is often one of the most amusing parts of a union.

Discreet dating is the perfect remedy for couples who have lost their sex drive. The mere act of having a private relationship outside of the union creates a sense of mystery that often fuels the individual who is cheating to become more passionate when making love to their spouse or long term partner. A man who has enjoyed sex with his discreet partner usually takes those memories with him when he has intercourse with his girlfriend.

Benefit #2: Adventure

Sometimes seeing the same person everyday becomes boring. Discreet dating give you the opportunity to break out of the mold with a new partner every night. Thanks to the online scene, you can now meet a different person everyday and enjoy their company as little or often as you desire. Such adventure outside of the confines of commitment allows you to view your long term relationship in a different light, which may lead you to better appreciate your union.

Benefit #3: Freedom

Sex is great and adventure is even better but there is nothing like freedom in dating. Your discreet partner does not have to call you after a great evening out, and neither do you have an obligation to keep in contact with them when the night of passion has concluded.

In addition, you can break it off without any regrets whenever you feel like things are becoming a bit territorial because the terms of your union is one where no strings are attached. Such freedom allows you to essentially have the best of both worlds as you pursue passion with your devout partner at home while enjoying your honey on the side.

 

 

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