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If you are single and looking for a way to meet people and have a little fun with no strings attached then you might want to consider setting up a Tinder profile.  Tinder is an application that allows you to see a variety of profiles or pictures and then like or dislike them with a swipe of your finger.  If you are looking for a one night stand then this is the ideal application for you.

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Here is how to make a great profile and have success on Tinder.

  • Pictures.  Taglines are not relevant.  You have to make an impression in a second and the way to do that is with a great picture of your face for your first picture.  Your second picture should be one of you in social interaction with people who are well groomed and dressed.  This shows that you have a social life, fashion sense, sophistication and maturity. Your third picture should highlight your body.  Not a bathroom mirror selfie.  It should be of you doing something that is natural – like chilling with a friend or relaxing at the beach.
  • Profile.  You might want to make up a totally new Facebook profile just to match your Tinder profile.  One of the best things to do is then to like pages that your target demographic might also like.  This can increase the interests that you share.
  • Technique.  Swipe right.  The more people that you swipe right on, the more chance you have of hooking up with someone.  It is a numbers game in the end and that’s really all there is to it.
  • Message.  Send a message to all of your matches.  This will further increase your popularity.  Get their attention and their number and then use the number.  Text, call…whatever.

Tinder is really a no brainer.  Anyone who can swipe left or right will have at least marginal success but when you follow these guidelines you will see massive success.

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Latex and Sex
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There are fetishes, and then there are some interesting fetishes. Did you know that latex is a big one especially among the BDSM community? Well it is, and there are many specialty sex toy companies that cater to this desire in people during their sexual play time. If you don’t know where to start to explore this common fetish, then here are a few beginner items you might want to pick up.

Latex and Sex
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Latex Stockings: These are a fun item that don’t require you to be in the full latex attire. They are especially fetching when paired with a sexy camisole or bra and panty set in lace. Latex and lace are one of the sexiest combinations.

Latex Gloves: Long latex gloves are a good way to explore latex. You’ll get more used to the feel of the fabric before you move on to an entire body suit.

Latex Panties or Thong: High waisted latex panties or a teeny tiny thong with open crotch piece are an intense way to experience the fetish while you are actually having intercourse.

Latex Garter Belts: Also attached to a pair of latex panties go a little further with latex garter belts attached to latex stockings of course. You’ll be ready for the full getup in no time flat!

Latex Wrestler Suit: Men can get in on the action and fun as well with a latex wrestler suit. It’s a way to explore the sexual excitement without getting too dressed up since this still exposes quite a bit of skin.

The more advanced latex lover is going to want to suit up in the full outfits complete with a hood or mask. That is definitely for the more experienced latex fetish user. Just remember it’s all about your comfort level so don’t do anything that goes too outside your own comfort zone. Everyone is different. Everyone’s likes, and dislikes are meant to be treasured and cherished especially when exploring the sexual desires of the latex fetish participant.

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pick up girls
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When it comes to picking up women on online dating websites, it’s all about choosing the right words.

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Women are very receptive to word choice and tone. The words that you pick and the context in which you say them matters greatly. The first step is to send a message to a potential flame. Use proper grammar, spelling and punctuation to show that you are literate and educated. Don’t try to be cool and use slang to make a unique first impression. Also, avoid being overly formal with your greeting. Sometimes, an informal greeting like, “Howdy”, is much more successful than a formal word like, “Hello”. Think carefully before selecting your words as choosing the wrong one might turn out to be a deal-breaker.

Compliment Only the Right Things

Once you have introduced yourself, do not move on to doling out physical compliments. Like the rest of us, women have very little control over their looks. So don’t give them a reward for something that they might not have worked hard to obtain. Rather, compliment a potential flame on just about anything else. Whether it is her intellect, occupation, education or style, say something nice.

Raise Specific Interests

The average person has a number of different interests and hobbies. Bring up your own interests and ask potential mates what they like to do for fun. The chances are high that she’ll have a specific interest in something beyond TV and exercise. Talk about what you might have in common and see if you can develop a connection.

Ask Questions

If there is a lull in the online or “real world” conversation, break up the monotony with a question. In general, women love to talk and most adore talking about themselves. So ask away. Whether it is a question about work, school, fashion, cooking or the weather, most women will be more than willing to speak on the subject.

 

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Addicted to Sex
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Are you addicted to sex? Hmmm, well, we guess there are worse addictions to have.

Do you always want to fulfill those urges deep down in your bones? Finding it hard to do so? That is not uncommon. The problem for most women is finding a large supply of willing, appropriate sex partners. Having a sex addiction and being left cold turkey is a sure downer.

So what can be done? Not much, some would believe. After all, the availability of safe sex partners is a bit limited, even in New York City. Pick up bars and nightclubs do not do the trick. You never know if the guy will be a complete dud.

Addicted to Sex
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If you are a woman who wants to get down to business in bed, without all the silly games, you need to increase the odds of finding that right man. You need a place where men are virtually falling from the sky! Raining men! Now that would be heaven!

It might be wise for such women, who desire to fulfill their urges safely, without having to worry about meeting strange men in a bar, to check out SexNDate. This site provides an almost unlimited supply of male, and female, sex partners. Though focused on the New York dating scene, anyone can join SexNDate anytime. Just set up a profile to begin making connections with like-minded folks, who know how to please a lover.

 

 

In place of the anxiety about being left unfulfilled, SexNDate users enjoy the relief of knowing that a date is only a click away. All they have to do is browse through the catalog and choose a partner who matches their needs and desires.

If you are addicted to sex and like checking out male bulges on the regular, think about sex more than 10 times a day or always want to have a ready supply of willing men, then SexNDate is a good option.

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blind date
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Boy meets girl.  Boy loses girl.  Boy tries a “blind date” with a friend of a friend.  For the most part, all you know about this woman is what your friend told you.  “Back in the day,” this is all you had to go on.  You were trusting your friend to set you up with a wonderful woman who fulfilled all your hopes and dreams.  However, the world was a different place then.  We did not seem to take much pleasure in deceiving people, nor did we really have the technology.

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Nowadays, boy meets girl.  Boy loses girl.  Boy tries a “blind date” with a friend of a friend, but boy has the opportunity to dig into the world of this friend of a friend.  By just simply knowing the woman’s name, boy can find out just about everything he wants to know about her, especially if she is a social media user.

Facebook

You can learn a lot about a person by browsing their Facebook.  How many people have no idea how to change their security settings on their Facebook account?  If a person’s Facebook security is set to public, everything someone posts on Facebook is out there for anyone to read.  Even if a person’s Facebook security is set to friends only, chances are you are bound to see at least their profile picture.

Google

Type a person’s name into Google, and just like Facebook, you can find out almost everything there is to know about someone, including where they work, their possible interests, and their education.  Sometimes, even their age, address, phone number, and email address is right at your fingertips.

Background Checks

There are websites out there where simply typing in some basic information about a person and paying a small fee can get you almost any type of information you are looking for, including their arrest records, marriage records, and even possibly their net worth.

Conclusion

Yes, “blind dates” do still literally exist, however, not many people enter into them completely “blind.”  If you have “done your homework” regarding your “blind date,” perhaps you will be more successful if you keep the infomation you have learned to yourself.

 

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BDSM
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BDSM
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The popularity of 50 Shades of Grey has opened up the world of kink to a whole new group. If you are among the 65% that dreams of bondage, where do you start? Here’s a rough and dirty BDSM guide that will leave you and your partner satisfied and coming back for more.

1) Communicate
The most critical element of successful BDSM play is a lot of talking. Talk to you partner about your fantasies. Get detailed. Create lists of what interests you, what doesn’t, and what might be fun. Your playing field is primarily going to land in the area where the “Yes, Please!” lists intersect.

2) Educate
There is a wealth of resources available to the novice BDSM player. Meet up with other kinksters at a local munch, a public venue discussion group for networking and education on BDSM topics. Visit a local dungeon workshop on bondage, creative BDSM toy crafting, or safe flogging techniques. Pick up a book and learn how to engage safely and how to prepare for potential disasters.

3) SSC/RACK
SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) are the guidelines by which most BDSM participants center their play. It means both partners are fully aware of and okay with whatever is going to happen, mutual respect is central to the activity, and every effort will be made to prepare for and mitigate potential unexpected issues. Safe words, or a way to pause or stop scenes if they get too intense, are a part of this. Most public dungeons use the Red, Yellow, Green system. Red means stop immediately, yellow means pause, and green means go, baby, go.

4) Aftercare
A critical step in a BDSM scene, aftercare should not be overlooked. When done correctly, BDSM can be emotionally and physically intense, triggering an adrenaline response in both the ‘top’ and ‘bottom’. Aftercare helps the body and mind recover from that rush. Partners get a chance to connect and reassure that everything is well. Cuddle, eat something small, and enjoy each other’s presence. Once you are both back on Earth, talk about the scene.

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A Date VS a One Night Stand
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Adults in the contemporary world have a wonderful amount of choices when it comes to interaction with other adults. Dating websites, mobile apps technology, and social media make it easier than ever before to meet people. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder and there is someone out there for everyone.

A Date VS a One Night Stand
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It is important to understand the differences between seeking short-term sexual encounters and going on a date with the possibility of continuing the relationship, if things work out. There are advantages and disadvantages for both. It all depends on what a person really wants. The important thing is to be honest with a potential partner, so that there is a clear understanding by the other person of one’s desires.

A Date

Dating is for people who at least have some desire to form a relationship with another person that may last for a while.

The advantages are:

  • When there is chemistry, dating may lead to a longer or committed relationship.
  • There is more time to get to know the other person.
  • It can be enjoyable to do activities, besides only sexual ones, with another person.
  • Family and friends may get to meet a dating partner.

The disadvantages are:

  • There may be a delay in sexual gratification, while the only person is being “courted.”
  • There are cultural patterns that are potentially annoying. For example, a man must pay for the date, and then the man expects sex from the woman.
  • More emotional commitment is involved. This means rejection and break ups can negatively affect self-esteem.

 

 

One-Night Stands

These are also called “hook-ups.” These are usually very short experiences, sometimes without even knowing much about the other person or even their name.

The advantages are:

  • There is no long-term commitment.
  • A variety of sexual encounters is adventurous.
  • Relieves sexual tension.
  • Can be scheduled for convenience.

The disadvantages are:

  • Feels shallow.
  • Multiple sexual partners increase risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
  • Usually there is little chance to see the person again, unless the encounter evolves to a regular “fuck buddy” arrangement.

Conclusion
There is a place in this world for both dating and one-night stands. Some people prefer one to the other, some like a little bit of both. There is no rule that prevents enjoyment based on a person’s desires. The best way to approach this is to first be honest with oneself about true feelings and then pursue the style that results in the most happiness.

 

 

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Pick-up bar VS adult dating
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Anyone contemplating adult dating probably wonders whether it beats out the traditional pick-up bar scene. Well, the answer is yes. Without a doubt, adult dating is a better option for those who want to enjoy the pleasure of sex, without the aggravation of worrying about lots of extraneous issues.

Here are 5 reasons why adult dating beats the pick-up bar.

Adult Dating is Less Expensive

Pick-up bar VS adult dating
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It is less expensive to meet a girl online than in person in a bar.

Think about it, you go to a bar. There, you have to buy a few drinks to calm yourself down. Then, of course, the woman expects the man to buy her a drink upfront. That is right. Even before you get to know her name, a drink, the more expensive, the better, had better make it to her table.

Hopefully, the conversation goes well. If it does, the drinks must keep flowing. At the end of the night, the bill comes right to you.
In contrast, adult dating is a cinch. Your date is a sure thing. You get what you want without sitting in a bar paying to get her drunk.

Adult Dating Allows People to Get Acquainted First

Adult dating sites, such as SexNDate, allow users the opportunity to meet prior to seeing each other in person. Consequently, you can be certain that there is a connection with the other party. At a pickup bar, patrons have to contend with the luck of the draw. Honestly, you have no more to go on than looks, which often works out badly. Everything that looks good is not good for us.

 

Adult Daters are Upfront

The adult dating world is better in this regard because there is little incentive to lie. Everyone knows that sex is almost a forgone conclusion. In the end, the self-consciousness that leads to lying is not there. In a bar, watch out. People are so nervous and anxious about getting laid that they will say anything.

Adult Dating Sites Offer a Wide Selection

Adult daters have a wider selection of possible partners. In a bar, one must be content with those who happen to have chosen the same bar, the same night. The odds of success are better with more men and women.

Adult Daters Face No Competition

Last, adult dating erases the competition factor. You do not have to beat out the other guy to get the woman of your choice. Nope, all is peace and harmony among sexually-liberated adults.

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fuck buddy
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The sex act means different things to different people. To some, it is all about love. Nothing wrong with that. These types want to experience a lasting relationship with a single partner. More power to them. In contrast, there are others, perhaps you, who desire to experience the thrill of various partners. These free minds understand that sex is also a sensual, relaxing activity when shared with kindred spirits.

So, where does one find a safe place to meet men and women who want to skip all the romance and get right to the main event? Well, in the past, it was not so easy. People had to scour advertisements in papers found in adult bookstores, call some unknown, faceless contact and hope for a match. Well, all of that uncertainty has changed. Now, all that needs be done is to visit SexNDate, the one-stop site for people looking to have sex right now!

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But, wait, how can users be so sure they will find their date attractive? Well, nothing is 100% for sure. The good thing abut SexNDate, which covers the New York City dating scene in-depth, is that members create useful profiles. They sign up and offer as much information as possible, telling folks exactly what it is they look for in a sex partner.

A simple browse through the site presents all the possibilities in abundance. There is somebody out there for everybody. And, given that those on SexNDate are comitted to the idea of sexual freedom, the odds are that all are are going to have a good time.

Men and women now have the opportunity to establish open sexual relationships from the freedom of their home. No more visiting porno shops to buy the latest copy of a swinger magazine. Nope, the internet has made it possible for a larger number of sexually-liberated New Yorkers, and others, to come out of the shadows. So, sign up today and get started finding those who meet your needs.

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flirt with a woman 
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Flirting with a girl can open up the doors to something amazing with her, even if it’s just between the sheets. If you want to get her intrigued, there are a few things you need to do besides being confident and being yourself.

  1. Tell Her She’s Pretty

Let her know you think she’s attractive. This might not seal the deal, but it’s enough to let her know you’re interested in what she has. Make sure you do it in a unique way as opposed to just flat out telling her she’s pretty. She’s probably heard this a lot, so it doesn’t make you stand out by saying what all the other guys have said. You could say something about a specific body part of hers – besides her breasts or booty – such as her eyes. You could tell her how her eyes have a special sparkle to them.

  1. Introduce Yourself

Make sure you tell her your name as soon as you meet her. It’s easy to forget this step, and then she winds up thinking about who she was talking to for the last 30 minutes.

  1. Make Her Laugh

One thing to say to her is something funny. If you don’t same something funny, she may get bored.

  1. Ask Her About Her

Women like when a man shows interest in her, so ask some questions about her that aren’t too personal.

 

 

  1. Keep Conversing With Her

Don’t let the conversation end on your side. Make sure you keep talking to keep her engaged in the conversation.

  1. Talk About Her Likes

Ask her about her likes and let her know what you like. Women tend to feel a connection with men who have a lot in common with her.

  1. Listen

Although this isn’t something to say, it’s something you need to do. No woman wants to feel like you’re not listening to her.

  1. Be Honest

Don’t pretend to like something if you don’t. You don’t have to tell her you hate Mexican food if she likes it, but you don’t have to tell her you love it either.

  1. Turn a Corny Pick Up Line into a Joke

Go ahead and use a lame pickup line, and then start making fun of yourself for saying it.

  1. Ask for Her Number

If you think it’s going well, ask for her digits.

 

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