Once you have been with your mate for a significant amount of time, you might need to find ways to spice things up in the bedroom again. Whether it’s stress from your job, or the addition of children to your family situation, sometimes the frequency of our sexual escapes goes down. Way down. If you aren’t having enough of the kind of sex you want to have with your spouse, it might be time to get a little creative. Adding a role playing fantasy to your bedroom repertoire complete with costumes might get your sexual mojo flowing freely again. It’s worth a shot, right? One time, I asked a pretty conservative friend of mine who had been married for over 10 years, with four children under the age of 8-years-old, how she kept their sex life fresh. What she said shocked me to my core, and I fell off my chair laughing. On the inside of course. She said that she likes to dress up as a sexy “Mrs. Santa Claus” for her husband. Well, whatever works, right? Maybe “Sexy Santa” isn’t your thing, but here are 10 role-playing ideas to upgrade your sex.

Naughty Cheerleader

Every guy has the hot cheerleader fantasy going on in his head. Whether they didn’t get the cheerleader growing up in school, or if they just drool over the professional cheerleaders that cheer on their favorite sports teams, cheerleaders are hot for them. The tiny teeny skirt, tight top, and high heels boots are all easy to find at most costume shops. If you really want to wow him, then get an exact replica of his favorite sports team’s cheerleader costume. They are pretty skimpy and cute. I’m not saying that I have an exact Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader outfit in my arsenal of costumes, but my man would love it if I did.

Catholic Schoolgirl

Thanks to Britney Spears, a whole new generation of boys lusted after the “oops I did it again” video where a young Britney wore a pleated skirt, button-up white blouse tied right above her tight tummy, and adorable knee high socks. Braids, and cute bows in her hair complete the look. You can easily replicate this sexy look, and play the bad girl for your man. Have him be the teacher who can punish you in any way he sees fit. I guarantee he’ll be begging for you to be his bad girl again and again.

Nighttime Nurse

Nurses are just sexy in general. Maybe it’s because most guys have seen a hot nurse in real life that has taken care of them at some point when they were injured, or in the hospital for whatever reason. Go old school on this one, and get the tightest white nurses outfit you can find. Pair it will some fishnets, and high heels for a look he’ll never forget. Make him be your very horny patient, and satisfy his every desire.

Police Officer

Some men think it’s hot to take instruction from authority figures, and cops are great for that. Make sure you add in some handcuffing action with this fun costume idea. Don’t be afraid to punish “your felon” if he’s done something wrong. You’re only doing your job as a cop, right? So much fun role-playing options to explore here. Good cop, bad cop is only the beginning. Promise him that you’ll only be a “good cop” for him.

Friendly French Maid

This costume has been around since the beginning of costumes really, but it’s still an excellent choice. Make sure to do it right, with a tiny flouncy skirt, and thigh high stocking with heels. Start off the fantasy by actually doing the cleaning bent over, while he watches. He won’t be able to keep his hands off of you for long. It’s also kind of fun to pretend you are French, and don’t speak any English. Hand gestures, and demonstrations will come easier that way in your role-playing.
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we aren’t leaving the guys out of this one either. They get play too!

 

 

Tantalizing Tarzan

He’s Tarzan, and you’re Jane in this sexy fantasy of a man who’s mostly animal in his nature. Let him explore every part of you while he wears a tiny loin cloth.

Doctor Yes Please

A white lab coat, and stethoscope are easy to come by to create this costume for him. Have him be your doctor, and give you a thorough examination all over your body. Tell Doctor Feel Good exactly where it feels good.

Sexy Superhero

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This is one of my favorites. Women love superheros, and there are many costumes that will tickle your fancy for this role-playing rescue. Thor, Batman, Iron Man, and Superman are a few of the hottest ones. Choose your favorite, or have them all on hand for a variety of hot super hero sex play.

Hottie Hot Firefighter

Service industry jobs can be very hot, and the firefighter is no exception. He’s probably the hottest of the hot professions. Big boots, and firefighter pants with suspenders, and no shirt is a very hot look for a guy. Don’t forget the hat, because soon that will be all he’ll be wearing for you. You’ll be ready to slide up and down his pole in no time flat.

Pirate Booty

For this costume, a white billowy pirate shirt, tight black pants, and an eye patch will do the trick. Have him capture you as the damsel in distress, and get ready to go  down on his plank.

With whatever costumes you choose to wear during your romantic time together, it will add an element of spontaneous fun that is sure to spice up your love life. So get dressed, have a blast, and enjoy the good times ahead.

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