Okay, so you only had two dates so far and you already slept with him. You might be feeling guilty or afraid that he won’t call you again and you might think “I slept with him, now what?” After all, lots of guys just take what they can get and move on.  But if you’re honest with yourself, would you really want to be with a guy like that anyway? Don’t worry. Here’s what to do if you slept with him after two dates.

1. Don’t Feel Guilty

We all do stuff we’re not particularly proud of. But feeling bad about yourself is only going to make things worse, not better. Besides, if you feel guilty, you won’t be able to look and feel your best, and that’s not fair to anyone.

2. Stop Wondering “I Slept With Him Now What”

Either he’s going to call you or not. Wondering whether he’s going to call or not isn’t going to change the final result.. So stop wondering what happens next. What happens next is you get on with your life, and if he calls, then great. Otherwise, it really doesn’t matter to you. Basically, there is nothing that you should expect to happen. It’s what you want to happen next.

3. Stop Obsessing Over Your Phone

Some guys call, and others don’t. No one knows why do guys not call after you sleep with them. But it’s not true for every guy. There are personal reasons why a guy will call or not, ad they don’t necessarily have to do with you, so stop obsessing over your phone and hoping it will ring.

4. Don’t Judge the Next Date on the Last Date

Whatever happened on your last date, it doesn’t have to influence your next date. Just because you slept with the guy once doesn’t mean now you have to do it all the time. You can explain to the guy that you felt it was a mistake, and maybe you guys will go out again and slow it down a bit. The point is, the dates don’t have to include sex each and every time just because you slept with him once.