The best swinger’s party is laid back, fun, and safe. It’s a perfect opportunity for you and your partner to meet and explore with other like-minded couples. But going to your first one can be a little nerve-racking. To make sure you’re prepared, here are the top four things you should consider taking with you to a swinger’s party:

Protection

Not every swinger’s party ends in sexual intercourse, but if it does, you’ll want to be protected. Having plenty of condoms with you is a no-brainer. Keep yourself and your partner safe by committing to safe sex.

A spare change of clothes

You never quite know where you’ll end up after a night out with a bunch of swingers. In case things get messy, bring a few small items with you, like underwear and an extra t-shirt.

Lubrication

Stay comfortable and prepared for whatever your sexuality desires with quality lubricants. Lubricants may also prevent your condoms from breaking by reducing excessive friction!

A whistle

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This last item may seem strange, but having a whistle or some other sort of alerting device is critical for you and your partner’s safety. Unfortunately, there’s no guarantee that everyone at a swinger’s party is going to be a likable character. In case you find yourself stuck with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s helpful to have some kind of signal to let your partner know that it’s time to go. Your signal doesn’t have to be as obvious as an actual whistle of course–even a hand movement or certain phrase can work. Just be sure that you discuss your safety signs with your partner before you get to the party.

 

 

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