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Many people shy away from workplace flings because they don’t want to deal with drama at work after when things go sour. If you can follow a few simple rules when it comes to workplace flings, they can actually be fun and can make the work day interesting.

Don’t Get Attached

If you are having a workplace fling, make sure that it remains just a fling. You don’t want to get too attached to the person. A fling is just that. If you find that feelings start creeping up, it is a good idea to walk away before things get too serious.

Keep Feeling Out of It

The best way to make a workplace fling work is to keep feelings out of mix. If you had a bad day or need to cry on someone’s shoulder, call one of your friends. Your workplace fling is just there for sex. If you start trying to express your feelings, it can turn into something that you don’t want.

Don’t Let Your Fling Leave Anything Behind

Your workplace fling may be tempted to leave a toothbrush, spare underwear, or a brush at your house. Don’t allow them to do this. If they feel that your place is their home away from home, things will no longer be considered casual.

Don’t Ask Who They’re With

If you call your workplace fling to come over and they can’t, avoid asking why. If they are out with a friend or a member of the opposite sex, it is not your business. They are not your significant other, so what they do with other people is none of your business.

Don’t Ask Them to Bring Anything

If your workplace fling is on their way to your house, you can’t ask them to pick anything up on the way. This is something that a significant other would do, not someone you are just casual with.

 

Don’t See Each Other Too Often

It is a good idea to avoid hanging out in public together or doing anything more than having casual sex. If you do this, it can create misplaced feelings. If all you want from your workplace fling is sex, keep it that way.

Be Prepared for it to End at Any Moment

It is a good idea to be prepared for one of you to end the fling with a moments notice. You may end up meeting someone who you want to date, or your fling could do the same. If this happens, the casual relationship that the two of you have will need to end. Because it was just a fling, you shouldn’t get too upset when things come to an end.

As long as you follow a few ground rules, a workplace fling can be very exciting and fulfilling.

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Any man who is on the market should be aware of the fact that many modern women are simply using the opposite gender for sex. While men still objectify women, plenty of women objectify men nowadays. Though it might be hard for some to believe, there really are women on the dating scene who are strictly interested in sex as opposed to a genuine relationship.

The best way to figure out if a woman is using you for sex is if she does not show any interest in spending time with you outside of the bedroom. A woman who is all about sex will not go out to dinner with you on a regular basis. Nor will she be interested in seeing a movie with you, watching the big game, taking long walks in the park or performing any other traditional activities (outside of sex) enjoyed by couples.

Consider the course of the conversations you have with your current lover. If the woman you are dating can’t carry on a conversation with you for at least a few minutes, she might be using you for sex. Consider whether your current flame leaves right after you make love. If she hops on out of bed to spend the rest of the night at her own place or if she heads on out early the next morning without interacting with you, she likely views you as nothing more than a piece of meat.

True relationships are about much more than physical attraction. Real lovers desire to spend as much time as possible with their significant other, be it in the bedroom, living room, kitchen or out in public. A woman who makes time for sex but won’t spend much time with you outside of the bedroom is one who is not interested in developing a genuine, well-balanced and healthy relationship. Do not let this happen. Let it be known that you desire a legitimate relationship that involves more than physical attraction.

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When it comes to picking up women on online dating websites, it’s all about choosing the right words.

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Women are very receptive to word choice and tone. The words that you pick and the context in which you say them matters greatly. The first step is to send a message to a potential flame. Use proper grammar, spelling and punctuation to show that you are literate and educated. Don’t try to be cool and use slang to make a unique first impression. Also, avoid being overly formal with your greeting. Sometimes, an informal greeting like, “Howdy”, is much more successful than a formal word like, “Hello”. Think carefully before selecting your words as choosing the wrong one might turn out to be a deal-breaker.

Compliment Only the Right Things

Once you have introduced yourself, do not move on to doling out physical compliments. Like the rest of us, women have very little control over their looks. So don’t give them a reward for something that they might not have worked hard to obtain. Rather, compliment a potential flame on just about anything else. Whether it is her intellect, occupation, education or style, say something nice.

Raise Specific Interests

The average person has a number of different interests and hobbies. Bring up your own interests and ask potential mates what they like to do for fun. The chances are high that she’ll have a specific interest in something beyond TV and exercise. Talk about what you might have in common and see if you can develop a connection.

Ask Questions

If there is a lull in the online or “real world” conversation, break up the monotony with a question. In general, women love to talk and most adore talking about themselves. So ask away. Whether it is a question about work, school, fashion, cooking or the weather, most women will be more than willing to speak on the subject.

 

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Overnight sex and quickies can both be a lot of fun, if done correctly. However, if you go about them wrong, the whole mood could be ruined and your partner might not be into it very much, if at all. To make the most of the situation, follow the five tips to each and make every encounter one for the books.

Five Quickie Tips

  1. Use dirty talk to your advantage. Since you do not have a lot of time for foreplay, use your words. They are powerful.
  2. Wear clothes that are ideal for quickies. You do not want to waste a lot of time getting out of clothes.
  3. Stimulate all senses at one time. Sight, sound, taste, touch, and smell. It can be done and it will make for an unforgettable experience.
  4. Pick a good place for your quickie. This is key since you will most likely not be in the bedroom. You want a place functional yet exhilarating.
  5. Focus on getting your partner ready… fast. Hit the sweet spots to get things moving quickly.

Five Sex Overnight Tips

  1. Spend some time getting yourself ready, you have all night to enjoy it and this is something you have planned.
  2. Spend some time on the foreplay. After all, it can be just as great as the main event.
  3. Get creative and spice things up in the bedroom. You are not limited by resources in this situation.
  4. Keep the night going even after you have drifted asleep for a nap. Gently hold your partner and caress them until they are fully awake and ready for round two, three, or four!
  5. Do not forget the art of the flirt. Flirt while in bed and flirt after sex for some fun pillow talk. Cuddling is also an important aspect of overnight sex. Enjoy your time together and act as though the night will never end.

 

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