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When I was a child, it was still permissible for teachers to punish students by hitting them. In my elementary school, this consisted of having to stand at the teacher’s desk with hands extended, while she hit my hands with a ruler.

I was an early bloomer, so by the time I was in sixth grade my body was changing and the hormones started raging. I did not pay much attention in class, except to flirt with the girls and try to imagine what sex would be like with them. I got into trouble plenty of times for this.

Sexual-Fantasies

One time, when the teacher bent over to slap my hands with a ruler, I got a great view inside the top of her blouse and could see just enough of her breasts to get excited. She was a young woman, in her twenties, and super hot looking. After this, I never felt any pain from the punishment, only excitement. Often I would start to get boner while the punishment was in progress, returning afterwards quickly to my seat to cover it up with my books.

I guess this childhood experience is why, as an adult, I get pleasure from having a little pain associated with sexual arousal. I am not into heavy pain; it is just that a little spanking or correction by a hot dominatrix really turns me on.

Boy was I happy to discover adult dating sites that had willing participants to help me fulfill my fantasies. I am a tall, macho guy, so asking a woman to spank me without knowing she is already into such things was too embarrassing for me to try it. However, after I met a woman through an adult dating site who liked to dominate men for sexual pleasure, my fantasy dreams came true.

It turns out she happens to be a teacher! In her regular life, she is a bit shy and men do not treat her with respect. Her fantasy was to control a masculine man and punish him for being a “bad” boy. We made the perfect match. I am so happy to have met this wonderful woman through an adult dating site that specializes in hook-ups that fulfill fantasies. Everyone who has special desires should try this.

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Female Sex Fantasies
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There are a lot of female sex fantasies and at one time or another, you should make the effort to make them happen. After all, it’s no fun to simply fantasize. You want to be the one actually acting them out so that you can put a notch on your sexy bucket list.

  1. Out in the Open

Everyone has a little exhibitionism in them and the idea of possibly being caught can be hot. Not out in the open where there are a lot of people, but perhaps a park…

  1. At the Movies

Forget about making out in the theatre. There’s a completely dark room and super comfortable seats. Just move the popcorn aside.

  1. With a Stranger

Don’t use names. You meet someone, you find that instant connection, and urges are acted out upon immediately.

  1. At the Beach

With the sound of the waves crashing, it can be a great place to have sex. Just be sure to bring a blanket if it becomes a reality because sand and lady bits are not a good combination.

  1. On Camera

The idea of having a camera rolling while in the act is hot, hot, hot. Being able to watch it afterwards can help to bring back the mood instantly, too.

 

 

  1. In a Group Setting

Two is nice, but threesomes and moresomes can allow the “all hands on deck” that is highly worth fantasizing about.

  1. With Some Spanking

With a paddle or a bare hand, spanking can help to set the mood almost instantly.

  1. Tied Up

Women like to be tied up in many instances because they get to surrender. Whether it’s with rope, silk ties, or handcuffs, it’s definitely worth trying at least once.

  1. With Chocolate

Chocolate syrup dripping down particular body parts is hot – and having someone who is willing to lick all of that syrup up is even hotter.

  1. Sex in the Shower

There’s something about water beating down and lots of suds that is erotic and highly worth fantasizing about.

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If you want to enhance your sex life, look no further than these four fantasies , which are among the most common.

1. Bondage Fantasies

Wanting to be tied up or to tie someone else up ranks highly on the list of sexual fantasies most people want to try. There’s something about being unable to move while your partner does everything he or she desires or having that control that’s completely alluring. There’s no shortage of methods to bind someone, either. From handcuffs to leather straps, ball gags to blind folds, you can experiment forever.

2. Stranger Sex

Many people fantasize about having sex with a stranger, or at least playing out a scene that looks like this! This is where an adult dating site can come in handy. Simply meet up with someone who shares the same fantasy and sneak off to the bathroom, closet or even a hotel room for a quickie that no one ever has to know about. You can pretend like you’ve never met your partner before if you don’t actually want to sleep with a stranger.

3. Threesomes

Most people think that it’s just men who desire threesomes, but that’s not the case. Adding another person to the bedroom and seeing them provide your partner with pleasure — as well as receiving extra pleasure yourself — is quite exhilarating! FMF and MMF threesomes are among the most popular pairings, but you can have a love of fun realizing this fantasy with same-sex partners, too.

4. Voyeurism and Exhibition

Does it get your motor running to watch your partner masturbate? Perhaps you like to do it when he or she doesn’t notice. Or you might be the one doing the dirty while someone watches from afar, and the knowledge makes it so much more enjoyable for you. Being a voyeur or an exhibitionist is a common fantasy, and the two go hand in hand!

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Orgy Positions
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For those occasional to frequent, and spontaneous times when multiple, simultaneous partners become a reality, the lack of experience and/ innovation has the propensity to kill the mood. Don’t let all that fun get away simply because you’re caught off guard. The following is an overview of 5 of the best orgy positions to help you get the party started.

5. The 2- Seater-

Perfect for 2 adventurous females and 1 lucky male, the 2-seater is performed by having the man lay on his back, 1 woman sits of his mouth for oral pleasure while the other sits on his lap for intercourse.

4. Reverse Seater-

Taking the same combination of men and women from example 5, the reverse 2- seater involves having the first lay on her back while the other squats to receive oral pleasure from her. The man then sits on his knees and penetrates the woman vaginally.

3. The Group Get-Down -

This is great for swinging couples with bi-curious women or simply 2 fun girls and guys. This position is achieved by having 1 lady lay on her back while the man has intercourse with her. The second woman then squats down over the woman for oral and the other man penetrates her from behind.

2. Double Dinner-

Another position perfect for a threesome between a man and 2 women, this position is achieved by having 1 female lay down on her back while giving oral to the male, and receiving oral pleasure from the other female.

1. Oral Circle -

One of the best and quickest ways to get the orgy ball rolling, the oral circle or “train” as it is also commonly referred, is perfect for group sex of all combinations. Achieved by simply having everyone lay on their side in order to give oral pleasure to the person ahead of them and receive it from behind, try this position for a collective, orgasmic experience.

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From Role-Playing to Sex Toys
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Married?  You’re on the path to the best sex you’ve ever had.  You’re diving into an adventure with a partner who knows your body like no other, and the trust and communication you two have built opens all sorts of doors.  Now’s a great time to turn up the heat by testing a fantasy.

Role-Play

Do you dream about raunchy roleplay?  Is it the Naughty Nurse and her patient, or the Jock and the Cheerleader?  You can pull these fantasies off with a little inspiration and a costume.  Look in your closet for any base items that might work.  Thrift stores carry special pieces such as nurse’s scrubs for wild couples on a budget.

From Role-Playing to Sex Toys
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Sex Toys

Nothing will ever replace the experienced touch of your spouse, but the colorful world of buzzing, spinning, and uniquely shaped sex toys make a real change of pace!  This can be a great bonding experience for you both – browse your favorite adult website together, picking out one vibe that’s sure to please, one strange gadget for fun, and something low-key and sensual like chocolate body paint.

Bondage

This is guaranteed to add spice to the bedroom.  Tie two scarves to the bedposts and order her – or him! – to hold on and don’t let go.  Your lover will writhe as the erotic tension builds, and you won’t have to worry about rope burn or struggling with knots that have tightened up.

One Night Stands

This fantasy requires a little set up: you both get ‘into character’ as strangers who bump into each other at a bar and try to pick each other up.  Come up with ‘code names’ and sleek, sexy outfits you rarely wear, and arrive at the bar a few minutes apart.  Then you flirt across the room, order each other naughtily-named drinks, and try out cheesy pickup lines.  At the end of the night, go home together and see if you can break the bedframe during your ‘one night stand’.

 

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The art of tantric sex is something erotic that people have been studying for centurie. You might have heard more about it in modern times when in reference to the famous singer Sting, and his wife Trudie Styler who said they regularly practice tantra positions in their own lovemaking routine. Well, I guess there is nothing routine about tantra, but there are some easy positions that anyone can learn to do with their partner. You might have grabbed a copy of the Kama Sutra at some point to marvel over the hundreds of positions in that famed book, but it doesn’t have to be that complex. Keep in mind that one of the main points of tantra is to keep close eye contact with your partner. This aids in creating that close bond during the act of love.

Here are three easy positions anyone can do with a little practice.

Facing Each Other

Have one partner sit down on the floor, or on a yoga mat cross legged. Then the other partner climbs on top, facing them, and wraps their legs around the sitting person. You bodies are meant to be as close to each other as possible. This position is also great for kissing as well.

The Butterfly

This position can be done on a table or on a taller platform type bed. One person lays down with their legs in the air ready to receive their partner, who is standing up. Your legs go over the standing person’s shoulder, while lifting your hips up towards them. This allows for eye contact, but also deeper penetration for a more satisfying intense orgasm.

Chair Position

One partner is seated in a study but open chair. Then facing them the other person climbs on top, but lets their legs dangle down. This position is also easy to maintain, and allows for a closer connection to each other.

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Threesome

When it comes to fantasies, it doesn’t get much kinkier than having a threesome. As a matter of fact, a threesome is at the top of many men’s wish list. Whether you knew it or not, you were probably just a few moments, seconds, or words away from having your first threesome. If only you would have known then what you are about to know, it would have already happened! Continue reading for a few tips to guide you into having your very first threesome.

It’s All About the ApproachThreesome

First and foremost, most -if not all- women have bisexual tendencies. However, if you are trying to convince your significant other to engage in a threesome, you should avoid using the term bisexual entirely. The key is to initiate the conversation with something like, “I just read a study that most women are attracted to other women in some way.” In any case, the key to having your first threesome is to do it for her. In the event she responds positively, you should make sure not to be too excited. Instead, you can communicate you are open enough to allow her fantasy to come true. If you approach the issue with the wrong angle, your woman’s answer will be “Heck no, and am not I enough woman or good enough for you anymore?” This will undoubtedly open the door for doubt and then jealousy.

Interpreting the Answer

In any case, you should always be respectful of your partners answer. If she responds as if the subject never entered her mind or with a staunch “No”, this means she isn’t into woman, and it has never entered her mind. As a result, you should avoid this subject and never bring it up again. However, if she does show some interest into the idea of a threesome, you may be in luck.

Understanding Your Role

Many women do express interest, but have always been afraid to get into bed one-on-one with another woman. Fortunately, you will be there to make her feel much more at ease, which explains your role as a guide. Your entire goal is to simply make your woman feel more comfortable fulfilling her fantasies. When you take this role and embrace it, your mate is much more likely to give the threesome a try.

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