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Dating Reality

You try to keep your car looking shiny, you spend time at bars and clubs, you break your back at work and let’s face it- if you weren’t doing all of that in order to raise your sexual market value then you’d either be living in a cardboard box or you’d be a manic bastard.

Stuck in the Dating Matrix

But if even for a moment, you were to suggest to a date or any woman at all really that you’re only out to gratify your sexual desire you’d get a drink in your face and possibly a harassment charge. Okay, maybe that’s not a fair characterization of your motivations. Maybe you really want to find a woman to have a meaningful relationship with, spark up a valuable and lasting friendship and build a lifetime of memories with. That’s certainly plausible and acceptable, and fine and not in the least bit boring.

But, in the meantime, it wouldn’t hurt to sow your wild oats and get laid with no ulterior long-term motives. Why should we be ashamed of not wanting to marry every woman we go to bed with? What do we want, to go back to the Victorian era? Not willingly, I’ll tell you that. And, I’ll tell you this, leading theorists are now saying that all socially imposed sexual reservation has an evolutionary explanation. They say that prudery exists in order to hold people back just long enough that when they finally jump into bed and go at it the chances of conception becomes much greater than if they were getting laid every day. So even sexual repression is dirty.

WOMAN

Enough is Enough

Why not admit it. The reason you’re looking at those other sites is to hook up with someone to get lucky with. So why not get off the sites where you have to pretend to want to walk on the beach with a stranger? Come on. You know it’s too cold this time of year to be walking on beaches in the evening.

Have a click around at a dating site where everyone is there genitals-first and isn’t afraid to admit. Aren’t you sick of all the pretense and deceptive selfies? Of course you are. Save yourself a hell of a lot of time and grief- and, have a little fun for once.

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partner to a threesome
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Adventurous sex can be great sex. If you’ve always wanted to try a threesome, you’re not alone. Having sex with more than one partner at a time is the stuff of fantasy The trick is finding a partner for your perfect threesome who makes you and everyone else involved really happy If you want to try sex with multiple people at the same time, you have more options that you might think. Finding a partner for a threesome should be done carefully and slowly if possible in order to make sure you’re all on same page. At all times, you need to be aware of what you want and make sure that any potential partners share the exact same idea.

Your Local College Campus

Many college students are open to all kinds of new experiences as they try to figure out what’s important for them. Get a list of colleges in your area. Many have parties where you can mix and mingle. Hot, sexy coeds can be the perfect partner for a sexual experience you’ll never forget.

Sex Chats

Sex chats are a great way to find a partner for anything you have in mind. Join a sex chat already in progress or start a conversation of your own. Approach potential partners carefully and bring up the subject slowly. You might be surprised at just how many people are happy to be part of your plans.

Ask Your Partner

Before you do anything else, ask your partner. Most people have a primary partner they want to be around in addition to another possible partner. Maybe your partner has their eye on someone they’ve always wanted to be with. Maybe an old fling has popped in their lives again and they want to go for one last fun orgy with them. Your partner can be a great source of a willing participants in the threesome of your dreams.

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Are you looking for a relationship that has few, if any strings attached? Are you interested in women who

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will be discreet and respect any particular parts of your life that need to be kept private>

If you are attached but are still looking for something a little … extra … there are some ways to find that special someone to add some spice to your love life.

Finding those relationships can be tricky, especially if you live in a small town or have a large social or professional network. Flirting in a bar with an attractive person might raise some eyebrows. Workplace flings, also known as dipping your pen in the company ink, can get messy and mentioned fast. Both situations might get back to someone in your life. Those kinds of unintended consequences are not what you want.

There are some other choices. Traveling out of town lets you be in a place where you’re likely not going to be identified. Staying at a hotel during the work week? The bar or cocktail lounge is likely to be swimming with other professionals who need to relax and release after a pressure-filled day away from home.

Connecting with that high school or college flame on social media can also work. You just might find out that they too are looking for something different or that they also have unresolved urges from your shared younger days.

Online dating is very helpful and effective. There you will find like-minded women who are looking for the same thing you are. Maybe they too need that extra someone in your life. They may also be attracted to successful guys (or gals) with other obligations. They might also be looking for something with not a lot of complications or attachments. Sites that specialize in discretion are visited by women with the same intentions as you. They let you search for the body types, fantasies, locations and timing that work for you.

Discreet dating  is possible and can be very rewarding … for both of you.

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If you haven’t found the love of your life or someone worth lusting over, it is time to consider speed dating. Speed dating allows you to meet a diverse array of unique individuals in little time. You will meet in a space that is specifically designed for speed dating purposes. Here, you will spend a few minutes meeting with potential partners. Yet the manner in which you use the allotted time will determine whether speed dating reaps any sort of reward.

Get to the Point!

When you first meet a potential partner during a speed dating event it is imperative that you jump right to the chase. Do not engage in meaningless small talk about the weather, sports, current events or politics. Instead, dig right into the other person’s life. Find out what they are looking for in a mate. If you get the sense that you do not fit the description of the other person’s ideal mate, do not waste any more time interacting with that individual. The key is to listen closely to what the other person says about his desires and interests.

A Genuine Interaction Requires Give and Take

Do not spend too much time listening to others during a speed dating event. This type of dating dynamic requires reciprocity. If you do not offer details about yourself in terms of what you are looking for in a mate, you won’t give the other person an opportunity to determine if he fits your criteria. Let your personality shine forth so others can get a gauge of whether they can “jive” with you. Even if you are a shy introvert, try to become a social butterfly during these short interactions. Failing to reveal your personality, desires, interests and other facets of your life is unfair to others who are willing to “put themselves out there”.

Don’t Forget the Context!

It is critically important to remember that your interactions with others on a speed dating event are limited. Do not lose sight of the fact that you only have a matter of minutes to determine if there is chemistry between the two of you. Sure, you might be physically attracted to the other person yet you might miss out on the love of your life if you conduct a superficial conversation with that individual. So dig beneath the surface as much as you can to find out if there is legitimate potential for a meaningful relationship.

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One-Night Stand
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Everyone knows the tried and true method of going to the nearby “singles” bar to try to pick up a “hottie” for a one-night stand. The problem with this classic method is that so many use it. That is why it fails more often than it succeeds. There are better alternatives.

A few powerful, independent women make the first move and we love them for that. Nevertheless, when it comes to one-nighters, usually the guy has to do most of the work. He gets a boatload of rejection before scoring. Even with gay men, less handsome men pursue the more handsome ones. Don’t give up. Being rejected a lot means you are that much closer to getting a yes.

What Does An Average Guy Do to Increase One-Night Stand Success?

Here are some helpful tips:

  • Work the Ratios in Your Favor – Make sure to find places where the odds are in your favor. If the place has twenty guys for every girl, gay men have a chance of picking up some “rough trade,” but straight guys need to go somewhere else.
  • Alternatives to Clubs – Private events are good, because they have an automatic reason for happening, which makes is easy to start a conversation with someone attractive. Try wedding receptions, birthday parties, a backyard barbeque, and social events of all kinds.
  • Technology – Join adult websites that make it easy to find hookups.
  • Sexy Compliments – Go for the second or third most attractive one. Notice something about them that they may think is a flaw and compliment them about it. Examples are: 1) When a woman has a gap between her front teeth, tell her that means she has a bag of sugar down there. 2) For a man with a big nose, tell him that is a sure indication he is bigger than average. If you get a smile, you’re in.

Summary

Have fun. Get your game on and take it to new places to meet more people. This increases your chances of one-night stands.

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Many people are increasingly attracted to one night relationships, partly due to the relatively fast tract opportunity towards the achievement of sexual intercourse within a very small time. One night stand often results from saying hello to your mate to sex often within few hours after you meet her

Advantages of one night stands

One night stands offer some advantages to those involved in the situation. It enables two people to fulfill their sexual desires almost instantly after they meet one another without the usual drama, and long courtship often involving weeks and months before sexual intercourse. One night stands also eliminates the strings often attached, prior to two people enter into sexual intercourse. Many consider one night stands as fun.

How to find one night stands

To find one night stands here are the best places to find it

  • Bars and Night Club scenes-women are loose at night clubs and bars
  • Wedding Crashers-Women are more emotional after watching wedding vows
  • Holiday Parties- More affection during holiday periods
  • Birthday Parties-go after the girl celebrating her birthday

Strategy

Use different strategy, at the events such as described above when you first walk in scan through all the women around and select the women that will likely be a good candidate, don’t go after the hottest chicks, you have less competition with less attractive girls. Settle down with a choice, and let her know you consider her to be the most attractive girl around even if she is not. They will be blown away and may likely believe you and what you say the rest of the evening. Make pristine first impression, approach her with confidence, and engage her with a good conversation. Do everything in your power to make her feel good about you and herself, to boost her ego and thrust as well as her confidence. Chances are high you may take her home for your one night stand.

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how to flirt with girls
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Online dating can be a bit of a challenge for those who are used to speaking with women in-person and those who are naturally shy around the opposite sex. You probably think that your selection of words while communicating online will dictate your success with women. This is partially true. What matters most is getting to the point.

The difference between those who score hot chicks through online dating and those who go home alone often boils down to aversion to risk. Individuals who beat around the bush (no pun intended) and slowly work up to flirting with women typically end up in the “friend zone”. The successful guys are not content with being merely friends. They want to be lovers. They make their intentions known but rarely in an explicit manner.

The key is to make it known that you want women to view you as a romantic interest rather than as an acquaintance. Spice up your messages with hints about your intentions. Compliment women on anything and everything to make it crystal clear that you are really into them. Do not put any sort of limitations on potential date plans at the outset. When you send messages asking women to spend time with you, do so in an open ended manner. This way, she’ll consider taking the interaction to the next level after dancing, dining, strolling in the park or doing another activity together.

When interacting with women online, it is imperative that you do not talk too dirty. Save that for the bedroom. If you are too explicit regarding your intentions, women might interpret you as a pervert who is obsessed with sex. Instead, provide subtle hints that you want a lot more than friendship or merely someone to hang out with during the evening. Send a message about how sexy she looks in her profile picture. Or, leave a note about how you would love to be peering into her eyes over a candlelit dinner. Your communications do not have to be lewd nor should they be overly formal. Successful flirting is all about working the middle ground between these two extremes.

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Fling On New Year's Eve
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Looking For A  Fling On New Year’s Eve?

No one in NYC wants to be alone on New Year’s Eve. If you are looking for companionship, you won’t find it sitting at home on the couch. Even if you are newly single and not sure of where to start looking, there are always places to go to find others who are in the same situation. Bars and nightclubs in NYC are not the only places lonely people go to hang out. In fact, some people avoid them for fear of being the only one without a partner.

Look Where You Least Expect It

Whether  you are looking for a one time hookup or someone who you can call on a regular basis, go to places where you would least expect to find a date. Book stores, small cafes, etc. where people go to spend quiet time and find solitude. Many people go to these places simply because they have no one to share their time with. The key is finding people who seem as if they are searching for something. Many are there for no particular purpose, but were looking for something to do. If you really want to find a fling, show a little interest and see if they return the gesture. You never know until you try.

 

Don’t Be Overly Aggressive

Sometimes the best way to intrigue someone is to show a mild level of interest and then leave it at that. If they are truly looking for a hookup, they will pursue you. If the interaction begins to stall, you can always spark a little more interest, but going overboard may drive them away. Most people who want a fling are not looking for deep conversation or an overzealous mate. Offer companionship with a few benefits and see how the situation plays itself out.

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Webcams are a great thing to have on hand in the house at all times. Many people are not aware that a webcam can also be ideal to have around when making love. The use of a webcam when having sex is a wonderful tool to have in the room when people are having sex and want to record every single move they make as they have fun. Having a webcam in the room when having sex allows the people having sex to capture every single moment of their love making, moments that might otherwise be missed if the webcam was not present. It is a good idea to think about the use of such a device when someone is involved in serious relationship or just a casual and fun fling.

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Any webcam that is going to be used to record all actions during sex should be set up in a way that allows for a full view of both partners. The camera needs to be positioned so that it is possible to record the entire love making session. This means that the person who wants to record what happens in the room should make sure that the camera is able to capture them and their partner when they are having sex. If possible, the webcam should be checked in advance before anything happens. Someone who uses the webcam should make sure that the camera is in good working order well before they plan to have sex. Use the camera to record things that are going in the room for an hour or two.

Look at the finished product afterwards. Note exactly what the camera records when placed in one position. Consider placement from various places in the room if possible. One part of the room may yield a better view. The right kind of attention to detail can help get the best possible results.

 

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All About Hookups?
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When most people sign up for an adult dating website, their minds may be on one thing: sex and lots of it. Adult websites are often associated with no-strings attached sex or even extramarital affairs. Seemingly, both the men and the women want to get laid without having to worry about getting into committed relationships. But is there more to the adult dating websites, then the hookups?

Sifting Through the B.S.

If you want more than hookups and casual sex, you’re going to have to dig around to find the best legit adult dating websites. Unfortunately, dating websites can be beacons for scam artists or catfishers. The con artists may be bored with their lives and create fake profiles to attract unsuspecting members. Sometimes it’s easy to spot the people with fake profiles, but oftentimes you may have to talk for some time online before realizing the person isn’t being genuine.

All About Hookups?
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Adult dating websites are starting to offer more options to singles who are looking for more than just hookups. Sections within the website will likely include casual dating, intimate encounters, and relationships. If you’re not sure what exactly you’re looking for, you can often place ads in more than one section.

What You See Is What You Get

Want to figure out if the adult dating website’s members are after casual sex or something more? Take a look at their user profiles. Adult dating websites are chock full of explicit pictures and if someone is willing to show their goodies to the world, they may only be looking for hookups. Members are also usually very implicit about whether or not they want a relationship or not. Profiles usually state all their deepest desires and wants and reveals how kinky they’re willing to get behind closed doors.

Leaving the Door Open for More

Sometimes people are ambiguous about what they’re looking for. You may use an adult dating website for a hookup, but make a real connection in the process.  Feelings can come up although you both may be looking only for casual sex. After spending some time together outside of the bedroom, you may find that you have something in common more than just incredible sexual chemistry.

 

 

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