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Relationships that begin with simple sparks do not necessarily have to end up as short-term hook-ups. Study has it that hook-ups can eventually turn into serious relationships. Higher relationship qualities are usually common for individuals who take their time to know each other before getting intimate. The disparity doesn’t entirely come about as a result of having sex earlier. Factoring out those who are not interested in getting serious, there is no difference in the quality of relationships. Couples who involve in sexual practices but were open for a serious relationship can end up together and stay happily just like those who dated and waited. Love can develop even for those who start off with the sex and the city approach.

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Hookup culture isn’t killing relationships. Our generation and generations before us always said that but science has stepped up to prove it. There is no difference evidence that proves relationships that started off as hook-ups are of lower quality. Some couples who approach the relationship by getting intimate from the onset can develop true love. It happens when they spot each other across the room and get intimate then they develop affection and build their relationship. The readiness of the couple is what determines the quality of a relationship and not the type of sexual relationship.

Engaging in casual sex does not kill the possibility of falling in love and living a romantic life. If, anything it is healthy, normal, and it inspires a better adult relationship. However, chances are higher that hooks up do not end up in serious relationships as compared to dating. So casual sex is still not recommended for individuals intending to build a serious relationship. The best thing is for a couple to wait until both of them are ready to jump in the sack.

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When you know a date is going to get hot and steamy before it even starts, you need to plan ahead for it. Planning for your sex date in NYC requires a bit of work on your part, but it’s well worth it, even if you spend over an hour getting ready. This is especially the case

since a little maintenance and consideration can mean more pleasure for you and your date.

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Cleanliness

Hygiene is vital all the time whether you’re going put on a sex date in NYC or you’re just in your home, but it’s even important for your sexual encounter. Make sure you shower and brush your teeth. Foul odors are big turn offs. You’ll want to shave your legs, armpits and

nether region. Spray on your favorite body spray or perfume once you’re dressed.

Getting Dressed

Your bra and underwear need to match. It just looks much more appealing. When you choose your outfit, pick something that fits you well and you feel confident in. Red is a color that looks sexy and works with almost any skin tone. Black is another color that works well  on almost anyone. Plus, it gives you the appearance of slenderness.

Hair and Makeup

Most people who go on a sex date will prefer to see your hair down. You may want to curl your hair. Select makeup that works well for nighttime such as a dark, smoky eye with a nude lip gloss. Moisturize any areas of your body that are dry such as your feet.

 

Packing Your Purse

Make sure you bring a spare pair of panties in case the night leads into tomorrow. It’s necessary to bring your toothbrush for the same reason. You may want to take breath mints as well. Pack some money. Bring your cell phone in case of an emergency. Don’t forget to include condoms in your bag in case he doesn’t have any.

 

 

 

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Partnered but feel more like roommates? Sharing daily responsibilities and caring for the children are a part

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of the routine of your marriage. What happened to attention to your needs? As a woman or a man, we are more than our jobs and roles. We need to feel desired and desirable. Sex is available. Ashley Madison promotes it. It’s a swipe away on Tinder. Is this the answer?

Ethics

Married for better or worse was part of the vows. If you feel bad about a little white lie, don’t do it. Adultery has an impact. Lovers can stir up a host of issues. Sex and emotions develop into a relationship. For many, their emotional void drives them into a sexual relationship. What are you willing to sacrifice for some side action?

Health

Bring home the STDs. Many people don’t even know that they are carriers. HPV tests are only done on women in the states. Regarding mental health, those committing adultery are no longer involved in the primary relationship. If the other partner cares at all, the secret and its consequences will come out.

Reevaluation

We all want sex. However, once committed to a partner, some thought should go into the decision making process. Reevaluate your needs and where the primary relationship stands. Do you need a bit more of a social outlet? Has your individuality been suppressed as everything is given to your family? Think about classes or learning a skill to boost self-esteem and meet others. Speak with your primary partner about your needs in a non-confrontational matter. A happy resolution is possible as partners become aware of feelings and needs. If all hope is lost, throw caution to the wind and do what you like…after the divorce proceedings.

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  1. Know the area- the worst mistake that you can make is not knowing the area in which you are going to be spending time. You should have at least a cursory knowledge of your surroundings.
  2. Know the Hot Spots- you should know a bit about a few different hot spots or common areas where people swing. This can help you meet other swingers and let down your guard safely.
  3. Be Adventurous- though it may seem like you are being adventurous just by swinging, you should try to make sure you have an open mind and are willing to learn from veterans.
  4. Have Protection- it is crucial that you protect yourself with condoms and other contraceptives. Though everyone is consenting adults, you do not want to catch anything.
  5. Know Your Limits- you should know what you can handle and what you cannot and have a way to get out of things if you feel they are getting too intense.
  6. Take an Overnight Bag- when you go out on the town swinging it is always helpful to have a small overnight bag. This will keep you from getting stuck out without the essentials.
  7. Have a Game Plan- you should always have at least a basic idea of how you want the night to go. There is nothing more dangerous than not knowing what you are doing or what you expect from the night.
  8. Take Your Time- rushing into the first encounter you are provided can end in disaster, take your time to pick your partner carefully so that you know you are having the best time possible.
  9. Have Fun- do not get hung up on the technicalities of swinging, if you are having fun and you feel safe, go with it.
  10. Pay Attention- you should make sure that if you are going to a club or other establishment that you know the rules and are prepared to follow them. You should also make sure that if you are entering a private engagement, you know the limits as well.
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The best swinger’s party is laid back, fun, and safe. It’s a perfect opportunity for you and your partner to meet and explore with other like-minded couples. But going to your first one can be a little nerve-racking. To make sure you’re prepared, here are the top four things you should consider taking with you to a swinger’s party:

Protection

Not every swinger’s party ends in sexual intercourse, but if it does, you’ll want to be protected. Having plenty of condoms with you is a no-brainer. Keep yourself and your partner safe by committing to safe sex.

A spare change of clothes

You never quite know where you’ll end up after a night out with a bunch of swingers. In case things get messy, bring a few small items with you, like underwear and an extra t-shirt.

Lubrication

Stay comfortable and prepared for whatever your sexuality desires with quality lubricants. Lubricants may also prevent your condoms from breaking by reducing excessive friction!

A whistle

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This last item may seem strange, but having a whistle or some other sort of alerting device is critical for you and your partner’s safety. Unfortunately, there’s no guarantee that everyone at a swinger’s party is going to be a likable character. In case you find yourself stuck with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s helpful to have some kind of signal to let your partner know that it’s time to go. Your signal doesn’t have to be as obvious as an actual whistle of course–even a hand movement or certain phrase can work. Just be sure that you discuss your safety signs with your partner before you get to the party.

 

 

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Swinger Clubs

The most popular place to find local swingers in NYC is swinger clubs.  Many people prefer to attend swinger clubs, such as Le Trapeze, Labyrinth, and Caligula to get a feel for the swinger lifestyle.  A lot of people are fond of swinger clubs because they can be themselves without the worry of being judged about their personal preference.  Swinger clubs involve many different personal preferences, such as cougars, and MILFs.  These clubs are a place where people can get to know each and share similar interests.

Host a Party

You never know who’s out there until you meet them!  Host a house party or get-together for swingers.  If you aren’t comfortable hosting a party in the comfort of your home, you can host a special party at a club or another facility of your preference.  You would do like you do at any club and mix and mingle with different people and get to know some of the people who hold the same interests as you.

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Social Media Groups

Social media is great for many things, such as keeping up with friends and family, co-workers, and finding swingers.  Many social media groups are created by members who share the interest.  It’s one good way to find people who are swingers.  When you are added to a social media group, you have access to people across the globe who you can get to know and determine if they are a good match for what you have in mind.  You can add them as your friend and get to know them on a more personal level.

Chatting and Dating Sites

There are a lot of different chatting and dating sites that were created solely for swingers.  Take the time to join these sites, and get acquainted with the other members.  Make sure you put a clear picture of you and your significant other as your profile picture and include a brief introduction about the two of you.

Here are a few ways you can meet swingers in NYC.  Some of these approaches will work better than others, but you should try all of them to ensure you expand your meeting base to get an ideal of who’s available.

 

 

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For lesbians looking for a good time in New York City, things can sometimes become somewhat challenging. It can be difficult to determine which women are lesbians, making dating sometimes impossible. Fortunately, being a lesbian doesn’t have to mean that dating must be a challenge. If you are an adventurist lesbian living in or visiting New York City, then there are easier ways of hooking up with other lesbians. Whether you’re looking for a serious, long-term relationship with an attractive lady or you are merely looking for a night of passion, here are some fun and easy ways to making meeting other women easier:

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Scope things out in advance

Instead of simply showing up at local clubs hoping that an attractive woman will show interest in you, by researching the hangouts ahead of time, you can increase your chances of finding an interesting woman to spend time with. Here are some reliable sources for hooking up with lesbians looking for a good time in New York:

  • A Different Kind of Ladies Night – This comprehensive ladies group has over 3,000 members, all eager to hookup with other lesbians. You can check them out at: http://www.facebook.com/ADifferentKindofLadiesNight
  • Santos Party House – This night club is an extremely popular venue where lesbians love to hang out. Located on Lafayette St., Santos Party House is always crowded, giving lesbians plenty of choices of other lesbians to hookup with.
  • Snap Shot – This place is definitely for lesbians looking for an exciting and sexy time. Specifically created for queer who are proud and searching for the ultimate good time, it is a combination of fun, sex appeal and so much more.

There is a better way for lesbians looking to meet other attractive lesbians than stopping at random bars and clubs, hoping to meet someone interesting. By utilizing these tips, lesbians can take charge of their lives and seek the fun, excitement and passion that they desire.

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Whether you’re looking for a vibrator to spice up your love life or something to stash away for personal pleasure, choosing the right vibrator is often difficult. With so many options to choose from, sometimes the selection is a bit overwhelming. To help you make the right choice, here’s a list of our top 10 recommended vibrators.

1 – The Hitachi Magic Wand

The Hitachi Magic Wand is an external vibrator with a large, cushy head that provides clitoral vibration. It’s not the quietest device, but women swear it offers great results.

2 – The Gigi

The Gigi is a vibrator that is all about the G-spot. It’s shaped to expertly reach the G-sport, yet the large, smooth head can also be used for clitoral stimulation.

3 – Lelo Tiani 2

If you want to get your partner involved, this vibrator allows your partner to control the stimulation, and with eight different stimulation patterns, there’s a lot of fun to explore with this waterproof, silicone, vibrator.

4 – We-vibe II

The We-vibe II is one of the few vibrators designed for partner and solo play. It offers nine different modes, it’s a hands-free vibrator, and it offers clitoral and g-sport stimulation for plenty of sensual fun.

5 – Ladygasm Colibri

This silicone vibrator has a unique design that is all about offering the perfect clitoral sensations. It can be used from multiple angles and had multiple modes to enjoy.

 

6 – Trinity Vibes Classic 7-inch Vibrator

While this vibrator doesn’t come with a lot of bells and whistles, it’s powerful, slim, and sleek. It’s easy to store and small enough to take with you when you travel, and the sleek design ensures you enjoy using it comfortably.

7 – Minna Ola Vibrator

The great thing about this vibrator is that you can control it with the pressure of your hand, making it easy to get the intensity you want. It even has the ability to “learn” different vibration patterns.

8 – Trinity Vibes Vibrating Silver Egg

This small vibrator comes with an oval shape and it’s only two inches long. However, despite its discrete size, its multiple speeds make it fun to use, and it’s even waterproof.

9 – Impulse Jack Rabbit Vibrator

The rabbit ears flick for clitoral stimulation and the shaft rotates on six different speeds. The push-button controls glow in the dark, making it easy to use this vibrator, even when you want the lights out.

10 – Lelo Smart Wand Vibrator

This unique wand vibrator does more than offer clitoral stimulation. It’s perfect for all-over massage as well, and it offers multiple vibration speeds and patterns of vibration.

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Are you a top? A bottom? A little bit adventurous? Or a lot? Whether you’re looking for something new to try or just starting out, there are some gay sex positions that are so hot, they have to be considered the best 5 postions for gays.

Missionary

The missionary position, with the giver on top and the receiver on bottom is an intimate, more comfortable way to have anal sex because the muscles are looser and the anus is straight. In this position, the receiver can hold their knees to their chest, wrap their legs around the giver’s waist, or rest their legs on the giver’s shoulders. Try all three for some face-to-face fun.

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From behind: doggie style

For hot anal sex, this position is perfect for the giver and the receiver. With one partner on their hands and knees, the giver pitches from behind. From here, the giver can thrust and pound the receiver while holding his waist and pulling him along for the ride.

From the ide

In this position, the lovers lie on their sides, back to chest. It’s kind of like spooning, except much hotter. Skin on skin and easy access to the receiver’s penis, testacies, chest, and face, make this position one of the best for sizzling side ways action.

Back it up

This position lets the bottom do the work. With the top sitting in a chair, knees bent up to his chest, the bottom gets down on all fours and backs right up to the pitcher’ erect penis, taking it in. From here on out, the receiver gets to thrust and create a momentum.

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69

Everyone loves a blowjob so in this position, both lovers get to give and receive. One partner lies on their back while the other partner gets on top, but switched around so that face is to penis as penis is to face. The other way of doing this position is for the gay lovers to lie on their sides with feet to head and head to feet. Either way, this gives the lovers the opportunity to get and give a blowjob at the same time.

 

 

 

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