Any man who is on the market should be aware of the fact that many modern women are simply using the opposite gender for sex. While men still objectify women, plenty of women objectify men nowadays. Though it might be hard for some to believe, there really are women on the dating scene who are strictly interested in sex as opposed to a genuine relationship.
The best way to figure out if a woman is using you for sex is if she does not show any interest in spending time with you outside of the bedroom. A woman who is all about sex will not go out to dinner with you on a regular basis. Nor will she be interested in seeing a movie with you, watching the big game, taking long walks in the park or performing any other traditional activities (outside of sex) enjoyed by couples.
Consider the course of the conversations you have with your current lover. If the woman you are dating can’t carry on a conversation with you for at least a few minutes, she might be using you for sex. Consider whether your current flame leaves right after you make love. If she hops on out of bed to spend the rest of the night at her own place or if she heads on out early the next morning without interacting with you, she likely views you as nothing more than a piece of meat.
True relationships are about much more than physical attraction. Real lovers desire to spend as much time as possible with their significant other, be it in the bedroom, living room, kitchen or out in public. A woman who makes time for sex but won’t spend much time with you outside of the bedroom is one who is not interested in developing a genuine, well-balanced and healthy relationship. Do not let this happen. Let it be known that you desire a legitimate relationship that involves more than physical attraction.
