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Have you ever explored the option of an open relationship with your partner? Polyamory is described as being in a relationship with more than one person. It might seem like an interesting idea to entertain, but you may encounter some issues with this type of lifestyle if you aren’t careful. Sex is only a small part of the problems that might come up. The emotional ramifications are much tougher to deal with. There are people whose personalities are more geared towards enjoying this “free love” state. Here are the five types of partners that can maintain an open relationship.

Non Jealous Types

This is a pretty obvious type that can take adult dating in this open relationship way. If you see red, as in anger, or are one of those people who obsessively checks your partner’s social media, email, or smartphone, then an open relationship will only bring your angst and heartache.

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Previously Married Types

For people that haven’t been married before, they might not enjoy a relationship which isn’t headed towards marriage. For someone who has been unsuccessfully married, and subsequently divorced, they might be more inclined to just live freely by not being committed to one person.

Non Religious Types

Many religions frown on relationships that aren’t geared towards monogamy, so if you are active in your church, but want to experience polyamory, they might not welcome you with open arms.

Millennials: A New Generation With Open Minds

More and more young people are frowning on traditional relationships. They are more open to exploring sex with more than one person in a threesome setting, and even bisexualty is becoming more commonplace with the younger generation.

People Who Don’t Want Children

The traditional family isn’t so traditional anymore. Many people are putting off having children and committing to one partner. So if you don’t want children, you might be more open to having relationships with more than one partner since you aren’t worried about setting an example for a child.

 

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Open Relationship
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Romantic relationships usually begin the same way; two people find each other and agree to commit to one another and no one else. But, in some cases, two people come together, fall in love, and agree to commit to each other while also keeping their options open for other relationships to form. This is an attractive situation that can be tough to pitch to your boyfriend or husband. How do you convince the man in your life to open of the gates of your relationship for others to enter?

  1. Ease your way into the conversation- When you decide that you want to have an open relationship, it is important to take your time with your significant other. Talk to them about why you think an open relationship would work for you both, what that would mean, and what sort of boundaries would be set. Don’t expect an answer at the end of the conversation. Allow them to think about it for a week or more if needed.
  2. Consider how the situation will benefit them- When your boyfriend or husband hears that you want an open relationship, the first thing to come to their mind will likely be the assumption that there is a problem in the relationship. Reassure them that there is nothing wrong with your relationship and tell them the benefits they will experience by entering an open relationship. Help them understand that they are equally a part of the open relationship as you are.
  3. Reassure them it is not just about sex- When most people think about open relationships, they think that it is all about sexual gain. There should definitely be an emotional need being met as well as physical. Explain that to your partner and make sure that they understand that they are not inadequate in some way and causing you to seek an open relationship.
  4. Set boundaries upfront- Boundaries are so extremely important in all of the relationships we encounter. Talk to your partner and make sure you two are on the same page about what to expect from an open relationship, what is allowed, and what is considered cheating. Once boundaries are clearly laid out and understood, your partner will feel more at ease because they will know exactly what they are getting themselves in to.

 

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