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NYC BDSM Clubs and Events

The NYC BDSM dating scene is vibrant. It offers clubs and events to meet people with something for everyone interested in this subculture. For newbies, those with particular fetishes, Master dominants and Slave submissives, NYC aims to please.

The renowned Mistress Leda runs Arena Productions with her two dozen dominatrices. They hold the ever-popular annual Black & Blue Ball, which is “the” place to show off and be seen. Another annual meetup, held at the Rebel Club, is the Rubber Ball/Miss Rubber World that is both a BDSM party and beauty contest.

Jezebel’s is a club near the South Street Seaport that focuses on those men with leg and feet fetishes. They have all kinds of props and costumes. Mistresses range from slim twenty-somethings to robust full-size ladies. What the mistresses do in their off time is up to them. Two other popular clubs are Paddles and Pandora’s Box.

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NYC BDSM Social Scene

DomSubFriends is a social group that meets monthly, usually at the Paddles Club. Their motto is reciprocal pleasure without specific boundaries to practice sane, safe, and consensual BDSM. The individuals involved in any scene decide their interests and limits. Exploring a foot fetish, being tied up, men having their balls shaved, or either gender being spanked are some of the things regularly shared by members of this group.

Lesbian women with a fetish for wearing uniforms and practicing military domination routines will enjoy joining up with the private association of women called the Dyke Uniform Corps. Another lesbian group is the private sorority called the Lesbian Sex Mafia. They hold monthly orientations for new members and sponsor events, workshops, lectures, and demonstrations, where it is easy for like to meet like in a social setting. Gay men have the leather bars in Greenwich Village to find a play partner. The Eulenspiegel Society is a non-profit group supporting the BDSM scene in New York.

Whatever you are looking for, you will find it in New York City.

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Dating lesbians in NYC can be a fun experience if everything is done correctly. There are many mistakes lesbians make when dating another woman.

Here are six tips for dating a lesbian in NYC.

Avoid Looking Cheap

Stereotypes of lesbians include the fact that they tend to be stingy with their money and are seen as cheap as a result. This is especially a concern when dating in NYC as the average cost of just about everything is higher than it is in many other cities.
Lesbian dating doesn’t require either party to spend their rent money on a fancy dinner for two, but refusing to pay for one’s date to take a cab home afterwards is seen as cheap and tacky.

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Have Standards

Some women think it’s a great idea to take their date to a bar or club where their friends or an ex hang out. This is seen as a tacky move when done on the first few dates with a new woman.

Think Before Speaking

Elaborating on the ex partner point, no woman wants to see the woman of her dreams and spend the whole time hearing about that woman’s ex. It’s disrespectful to her and makes the other party look selfish. There are tons of lesbians in NYC and if a date goes bad, there is not likely to be another one.

Be Bold

When asking a woman out it is best to ask her on a date as opposed to asking to hang out

 

Be Interesting

Good conversation is essential to a date involving two women.

Be Creative

Dating a lesbian in NYC requires one to come up with creative date night ideas, and there are many options they can choose.

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